What is the goal of family education? First, learn to take care of yourself and let children take part in labor. Let children form the good habit of sorting things out. Reading novels is to make him tidy, and talking about novels is to let him learn the ability of self-management. In senior high school, knowledge management and self-management behavior habits are inseparable, and cultivating good self-management ability can improve learning efficiency.
Second, pay attention to family style education and shape children's correct values and outlook on life.
Third, shape the healthy lifestyle of the whole family. Get up on time, rest on time and exercise together. In many excellent students' families, the family will read books together.
Fourth, learn to behave in the family.
What is the correct family education like? 1. Adopt authoritative parenting methods.
Parents should first respect their children and give them enough love and care. On this basis, they should formulate correct and reasonable behavior rules for children, pay attention to children's behavior, respond in time, and control the emergence of bad behavior. At the same time, we should listen to children's ideas and give them some free space to develop their personality.
2. Cultivate the ability of emotional management
Parents should attach importance to their children's emotional expression, not only allowing them to express their emotions, but also reasonably diverting their excessive negative emotional reactions. Understand the causes of children's emotions through communication, understand children's emotions in an empathetic way, teach children to be aware of their emotions, express and vent in a reasonable way, and avoid using violence to vent.
3. Reduce violent means and cultivate good behavior habits.
When disciplining children, if parents can reduce violence, treat children in a positive and gentle way, and appropriately adopt the reinforcement means of behavioral psychology to give positive reinforcement to children's good behavior performance, and eliminate bad behavior with negative reinforcement that does not attach importance to or encourage them, they can help children develop good behavior habit patterns.
4. Pay attention to children's performance and avoid school bullying.
Parents usually need to pay more attention to their children's behavior, pay more attention to their children's situation at school and actively communicate with their children. Help children to actively socialize, that is, learn to establish good interpersonal relationships, properly handle conflicts with classmates, better integrate into groups, and discipline and correct bad behaviors in time. Let children not be the executors of school bullying, and at the same time avoid being bullied. ?