Method 1: Exercise children's reasoning ability.
Part of the reason why some children have a hot temper is that when they encounter unhappy or unfair things, they can't express their wishes clearly in words, which leads to their inner irritability, and then they will express their dissatisfaction by losing their temper.
Therefore, for this type of children, parents should exercise their reasoning ability. When a child has a request, parents can listen to his thoughts patiently, don't be too arbitrary, and don't give the child a chance to defend himself.
Method 2: Let children learn to be patient!
For an impatient child, the most urgent thing is to exercise his patience. As long as he can be patient with everything, his bad temper can be controlled.
A parent's method is worth learning. His method is to let the child lose his temper dozens of times, otherwise he won't listen to anything. In the process of counting, the child's patience has been exercised, and his anger can be slightly alleviated.
Method 3: divert attention
When a child is in an angry state, if he can divert his attention in time, his emotions will be greatly suppressed.
Therefore, parents, if they find that their children are losing their temper, be patient first, let them move to a quiet environment and give them warm arms, so that their anger can be calmed down faster.
Method 4: appease the child's emotions and encourage him.
When a child loses his temper, don't fight violence with violence, which will only make it harder for him to learn well.
Parents should first calm down and tell him that losing his temper is a bad behavior, but it is inevitable as long as he learns to control it. Let the children not blame themselves too much. After the child's mood is stable, parents can start to enlighten him orally, encourage him to realize his mistakes and promise to correct them next time.