What big mistakes may many parents make when educating their children? 1, disturbing children when children are unfamiliar with things, many parents don't help them. Instead, they often cut off: "Stop, stop, stop, will you take the order or not?" "You will definitely not succeed in doing this. You must do it in my way ... Parents just want their children to take fewer detours and make fewer unnecessary mistakes. It is not conducive to children's concentration, nor to children's comprehensive study and training, and to master the essentials of doing things. Therefore, parents are advised to teach their children methods early and give them some good opportunities for trial and error.

2, often compare children in order to stimulate their passion and efforts, many parents like to compare their children with other children: "Xiao Liang's grades are excellent, you need to learn more from him" "Xiao Liang is smart, you have to redouble your efforts ... Parents' original intentions are good, but frequent comparisons will only cause children's psychological pressure and inferiority. The correct encouragement should be to explore the good places of children, praise the good places of children, and work out goals and plans suitable for their own situation with children. Only in this way can children work harder.

3. Take care of everything for the children. Seeing that children can't do well for a long time, some parents can't help but pull forward: "You just need to study and train, and don't worry about these things." "Do bad things all day, don't get it for me ... Parents come out to do it for their children, which seems to improve efficiency. In fact, it is easy for children to develop the bad habit of procrastination and dependence. Remember, in addition to learning professional knowledge, children's professional skills training is also indispensable (such as shooting ability, problem-solving ability, reflection and summary ability, etc.). Therefore, parents should "give people fish" and give their children more opportunities to do it themselves.

4, do not pay attention to habitual personality Some parents expect to receive "excellent finished products" after sending their children to school: "Teachers are professional, let them come when teaching children" "What parents can do is to give their children a better material life ... They just don't ask their children about their classes, don't pay attention to their habits and personality skills, and just regard exam results as the only criterion for judging their children. The final result is not conducive to the healthy growth of children, but also affects the learning effect of children. Therefore, parents should try their best to shoulder the obligation of educating people and grasp their children's good habits.