When Sue carries out this parenting method by herself, she does this: she takes a weekly vacation, gives her children to the nanny, grandmother and kindergarten at home, and then does what she wants, sometimes going shopping, sometimes going to the movies, and sometimes just walking around. While releasing pressure on herself, Sue will also practice thoroughly learning to let go of her worries about her children and completely enjoy a short time.
The result of carrying out the "barren" parenting method on Sue is that it won't make her feel too hard to get rid of parenting fatigue on time and gradually become a mother. I heard that her parenting methods have been imitated by many baby mothers, and the actual effect is very good.
Parents understand that the pressure of child-rearing work is released and the effect of child-rearing is obvious and natural. Their parents doubt this way of raising children and think it is irresponsible to their children. How can they be lazy to take care of the children? Indeed, China's parents can be said to be "model workers" in taking care of their children. They can accompany their children to do their homework and nurse them late at night. If their children are ill, they can stay around for 24 hours. But taking care of children is not a struggle for sales performance. Why make yourself so tired?
As the saying goes, "no arrogance, no impatience, no grace", parents should learn to vent their parenting pressure and fatigue, and don't let negative emotions accumulate. When facing children, they are happy, optimistic and happy, and children will be happier under the emotional feelings of their parents.
Therefore, why don't parents who have a hard time raising their children learn to escape the role of "father" and "mother" and "play together" to take care of their children? This is not only the courage to take responsibility, but also a commitment to your family and children.