amitabha
Suppose this person has only one hundred thousand blessings. If his parents love him since childhood, give him good food and drink, and buy him a school with money. Before he graduated from college, he had spent100000.
It will be difficult for him to make money after graduation. Because the blessings have been spent since childhood, which is very pitiful. Therefore, college students work for primary school students, and many bosses are uneducated, but we can't look down on them. They are blessed. Without culture, you will not starve to death, and without blessings, you will not be able to eat and wear.
Teach children not to spend too much money on education. What you spent was your money, but what you lost was his blessing. Many people were beautiful when they were young, but when they grew up, they were poor and lost their blessings. The ancients said that to cultivate the happiness of the old, we should not enjoy the happiness of the young, but enjoy the happiness of the old.
To educate children, we must know how to find the roots. Filial piety is good for parents, and children naturally obey. Talk back to your parents, and your children will talk back to you in the future. This is reincarnation. Three generations are also samsara.
Therefore, parents should be given delicious food, not children. Eating and dressing children too well will damage their good luck.
In the laws of the universe, many are irreplaceable. Children's blessings are gone, and they have to cultivate themselves slowly. You can't replace it. The more you care about your child, the harder it will be for him to achieve anything in the future. If he cares too much, the good news will be damaged, and he can still repair the good news in hardship in the future.
In that Futian, the elders are our Futian. We should respect our elders and predecessors. After we become elders, future generations will respect you. This is cause and effect.
We should take care of our elders more than our younger ones. Nowadays, people care more about their children than their parents. In the future, when children grow up and have children, they will care more about them than you do. This is the causal cycle.
The ancients said, don't leave money to children. If the child is promising, it's no use keeping money. The child has no promise. If you leave him money, he will be corrupt.
This is the law of the universe. Then what should we leave behind? Let us do good deeds, and our children and grandchildren will be rewarded naturally. It is best to deposit the money in Yinde Bank for the benefit of future generations.
I have seen many people do good deeds, fast and recite Buddha, and their descendants are very good. Master's father is called Li locally, and monk Xu Yun's father is also called Xiao.
Blessed people can naturally attract future generations. Heaven is fair. The ancients said that wealth does not exceed three generations, which means that no matter how bad your virtue is, you can't be rich forever. The rich will become poor. The poor work hard slowly, their virtue improves, and when the blessings come up, they become rich. This is the law of causality, the conservation of energy.
Rich people like to spend a lot of money on their children and provide a good education. Education in the world is also very good. But the best education is Ford's education.
Giving children Ford education is more than just knowledge and technology education. Therefore, don't damage your child's good luck and give it away if you have money. You can't think that if you give money, the child will have no money.
God won't treat people badly. What you give out is money, and what you get back is goodwill. These good deeds will naturally benefit future generations, and God will take care of him.
Let the child suffer and let him grow up, so that he won't suffer in the future. Parents really want to accumulate blessings for their children. If they have extra money, they can donate it to charity and accumulate kindness. Even if they follow the sky, the sky will take good care of their children.
However, some people think that for the sake of children's happiness, they make a lot of money for their children and even give them illegal money. Isn't this harmful to him?
Parents can't take the place of heaven, so parents should listen to heaven, don't do things for heaven, and make their own decisions. Many people leave a lot of money to their children, and they are defeated, so that they are spoiled, and as a result, children don't listen. It's good for the child to suffer, it's good for him!
amitabha