I once had such an experience. A woman came to a shop with a child to buy something. When she saw me swearing, she cut in and said that I didn't have a tutor, and I was like a hedgehog, hurting others and hurting myself. I laughed at that time. Have you ever seen a hedgehog that will hurt yourself? Can you blame us? Besides, swearing for no reason, or beating around the bush, hehehe, still laughing.

Scold you for having no tutor. On behalf of scolding your grandparents together.

If I were a deskmate, I would have fanned up.

You can tell him/her this way: Do you scold others for not having a tutor because they have quality?

He/she will often say: I am not scolding you, but educating you.

You: Have you ever seen anyone use scolding to educate?

Hehehe, can you do the following yourself?

I swear and hardly give others a chance to speak.