First, parents study hard and their children make progress every day.
I often read books on how to be a parent and listen to lectures on family education. For example: parents' class, a good mother is better than a good teacher, how to be a parent-a journey of great love, etc. I hope my children are serious, and I must be serious first. I hope my children can make progress. I must make progress first. Give children correct guidance and role models, and strive to be a competent mother. There is a saying: "The way you work hard is really beautiful." Then let the children see our most beautiful appearance! Because of the role of mirror neurons, growing up in a family that loves reading, children's reading habits are a subtle and natural result, and they don't need to be taught deliberately. If children are reading books and parents are watching TV and mobile phones, it is difficult for children to study consciously and happily. At home, we hardly watch TV. In front of children, we try not to look at mobile phones. We read books beside the children while they are doing their homework. Children read books, so do we.
Second, encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Turn learning into an interesting thing. My children sometimes hear her say: it's so difficult, I can't learn, I can't do such negative languages well. For this reason, we told her many stories about the growth of celebrities. At the same time, in the process of learning, we also tried to apply the learning content to life and games, which made her feel a lot of fun. Every time she makes a little progress, we will praise her: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! What a rich imagination! You're amazing! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait a minute. If she doesn't do well enough, I will encourage her to say: I believe she will do better next time. Just like an exam, the child got good grades. In addition to praising her, I didn't forget to make her modest and guard against arrogance and rashness. Respect and guide children's interests, constantly encourage children, children have interest and confidence, no matter what they learn, it will become simple and interesting.
Third, learn to let go and cultivate children's self-reliance ability.
Smart parents should consciously reduce unnecessary constraints on their children and give them more opportunities to be independent, believing that he can do what he can.
Every day, I try to get my daughter to do housework. I encourage Zhao Guihua to keep her own room clean and tidy. First of all, clean up and discard the toys that you don't like for a long time, put the books scattered on the study desks and chairs into the bookcase, and clean the desks and chairs with a rag stained with 84. I couldn't believe it when I went to her room. It turned out that after the outbreak of the child's small universe, her ability was really beyond my imagination.
Reduce unnecessary constraints on children, give them more independent opportunities, believe that children can do what they can, and make her feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, which is also conducive to the cultivation of children's self-reliance and self-confidence.
Fourth, communicate with children more and walk into their hearts.
Entering a child's mind depends not on doubt or surveillance, but on communication. Good communication enables us to establish close parent-child relationship in the family. My husband runs his own business, and no matter how busy he is, he will work with me to protect the growth of his children. Children's psychological problems are basically solved through face-to-face heart-to-heart, because we know that caring for children is not only academic and material, but also psychological comfort, so that children can really have someone to talk to when they grow up and have a healthy psychology.
Fifth, actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits and living habits.
Actively cooperate with the arrangement of the school to do a good job in children's moral education. Communicate with the teacher in time, understand the school arrangement, learning content, learning progress and children's performance at school, strictly urge the children to finish their homework, and carefully check the children's completion, help her find out the missing and fill the gaps, and let her strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with children and encourage them to make persistent efforts.
I appreciate some public welfare activities advocated by the school. Every public welfare activity at school is very meaningful to me. I will take my children to participate and experience it. I really appreciate the school holiday activities. It is not only helpful for the civilized construction of the city, but also a very good education for the children themselves, and it also makes them understand that "the city is my home, and caring for the environment depends on everyone." In order to experience it for myself, I went downstairs with my children to clean up the small advertisements on the wall and scrub the polluted walls in the community. During my work, my children and I had a rich and happy life, which was a rare environmental protection sharing class. Besides, I often take my children to nursing homes to visit those lonely old people. Let children understand that respecting and loving the elderly is not only a matter for the elders at home, but also a matter for the elderly in society to do their best, be grateful to the society, give love and get full happiness and happiness.
Children's education is not only a matter for schools and teachers, but also a matter for parents. Parents should work together with schools and teachers for our children. The children are excellent, and our parents are as glorious and great as our teachers. The healthy growth of children is our common wish. "It is pressure for eggs to break from the outside; Breakthrough from the inside is growth. " Only by reducing unnecessary constraints on children, giving them more independent opportunities, trusting them and giving them a sense of success and satisfaction can they cultivate their ability of self-reliance, self-improvement and self-confidence. Being a wise parent will make the journey of life more unexpected because of the company of children. Being a wise parent will make the journey of life prosperous because of the company of children.