People have been talking about Sandra's figure since attending the Tucao Conference.

Some people accuse her of being an actress and even managing her figure badly;

Some people questioned her. Can she still be an actress? You are all fat. ...

Too many negative comments poured in.

Until March 7, she finally released a video to respond to this.

She said in the video that she hasn't slept well for more than ten years.

I wake up for an hour or two every night.

It was not until later that she knew that she was suffering from depression.

The crux of the disease has a lot to do with her family background.

"You have to be obedient, will be good.

You have to be sensible. You can't think of others ... "

These words filled her childhood.

It is this oppressive education that makes her "cautious" as an adult:

It can be seen that her growing environment has turned her into a "likable personality".

It is actually very unhealthy to please others blindly but ignore your own psychology.

I remember she once shared her illness in a variety show:

Take medicine to ease your mood and gain 8 pounds in 3 days.

When you are crazy, your body will become stiff, your legs will become weak, you will gasp, and your eyes will turn black.

I can't walk the distance from the bed to the door, so I'm helpless.

Besides the influence of family education, she also talked about being bullied on campus.

When I was in junior high school, my classmates poured chalk dust and dishcloth water into her coke, and she didn't know the situation until she drank it.

Because I was fat when I was a child, I was also called "Fat Horse" by my classmates in public. ...

At school, she was isolated and bullied by her classmates.

When she got home, she had to be suppressed by her family.

In the long run, it is no wonder that she will suffer from depression.

They called Sandra "acting", "melodramatic" and "moaning without illness" ...

In the malicious comments, what a netizen said was heartbreaking:

"No one thinks I'm sick, but I think I think too much."

Sandra starred in the short film Save.

Play the inner struggle and pain of patients with depression

Mr. Lu Xun once said that people's joys and sorrows are not connected.

How many people around us can correctly realize this,

Depression is not melodramatic, but a disease.

CCTV once reported that depression has become the second biggest killer after cancer.

According to WHO statistics, as many as 350 million people in the world suffer from depression.

The number of patients with depression in China has also reached 90 million.

If you don't understand the disease, please don't make irresponsible remarks about them.

Because no one wants to make fun of his illness.

Pang was sent to a mental hospital for schizophrenia.

Hearing the news, I can't help feeling embarrassed.

You may not have heard of the name "Pang Langmai";

But you must have heard these lyrics:

"My skateboarding shoes are the most fashionable and fashionable.

..... Friction, friction, friction on the smooth ground. "

In 20 14, one of his songs, My Skateboarding Shoes, was airborne on the Internet.

Brainwashed melody, weird lyrics and simple singing almost made him popular overnight.

After becoming famous, the keen traffic company smelled the business opportunity and signed him immediately.

Under the operation of capital, he began to become a star in a good way:

Pack your name and background;

The company arranged a concert for it, and it was hard to get a ticket.

Later, there was a contract dispute with the company and it went away.

Some concerts were also held sporadically, but the audience was few and very deserted.

When I heard from him again, he was sent to a mental hospital.

His agent Xiao Bai said that Pang Langmai had been suffering from schizophrenia for many years, but he always insisted on writing and performing.

Therefore, his weight was reduced from 130 kg to over 80 kg.

His father also said that his son has been locked in his room writing songs, not talking, and no one is looking for him.

At the end of last year, I started talking nonsense, throwing things around and eating badly.

There are even reports that he hit his father with a bench.

Once released a video, hoping to raise money for Pang's treatment.

Netizens don't care about Pang's illness, but they are also cynical under the comments.

Seeing this, I really feel very sad.

When Pang Hong was young, people surrounded him everywhere and even used his fame to increase traffic.

Now he is "out of breath" and terminally ill, but those people have disappeared one by one.

Even secretly mocked him, satirized him and made fun of him.

The goodness of human nature is gone at this moment.

As you can see, too many people have discrimination and prejudice against mental illness.

Heard a real case:

When the doctor visited the depressed child, he boasted:

The child really works hard.

Who knows, the child's mother immediately retorted:

Study hard, it's all false work.

The doctor was very helpless after hearing this.

He managed to repair the child's psychological problems, but he was beaten back to his original shape by his parents' words or two.

Knowing that the child has depression, but also blindly using language to suppress degradation, isn't this adding fuel to the fire?

This situation is not a case.

A girl on the Internet told her mother about her depression.

Didn't want to, not only didn't get comfort, but also by mother:

Can't stand it yourself?

If you can bear it, do you still need to ask for help from your family and doctors?

The thought of this depressing family environment makes people feel suffocated.

It is because of the oppression of family education that Sandra has become a "flattering personality".

Pang's illness is not only due to the huge gap between reality and ideal.

It also has a certain relationship with the public opinion environment.

You may think that the so-called mental patient is just being melodramatic.

But in fact, they are likely to suffer great physical or psychological torture.

Some popular science bloggers summarized the possible signs of 10 patients with depression:

Once these signs are not alleviated, patients may make life-threatening behaviors at any time.

Therefore, it is particularly important for mental patients to create a harmonious family environment and social environment.

For depression, Sandra also shared some of her treatment experiences and suggestions:

It's just a disease, no different from other diseases.

All you have to do is face it squarely, see a doctor and take medicine according to the doctor's advice.

Don't specialize the people around you.

I agree with her very much.

In addition to a correct understanding of the disease, we should also actively participate in treatment.

Most importantly, each of us should let go of our prejudice and discrimination.

Instead of pushing them into the abyss of darkness with indifference and verbal violence.

You know, your words can destroy a person or save a person.

For those who suffer from depression or depression,

Please don't lose hope in this world easily.

After all, winter is coming, and spring is not far away.

As the writer Liu Tong said:

There's always a time when it's all over. Looking back on myself after the robbery, it turns out that everything has cracks, which is where the light lies.

Click "like", I hope you will always believe that spring is blooming and the flowers in the dark are brilliant!

The article "Rushing Forward" hopes that our society can be more warm and less indifferent!

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@ kapok said

Nicholas Tse talks about cheating first, and the divorce agreement with Cecilia Cheung is exposed: Don't wronged the children in divorce.

Compared with Zhang Ziyi, a Triple Crown Harvester, the school flowers of Chinese opera, which came out only 200 years ago, are all beautiful. It's time to catch fire.