Learn to be grateful. People often ask, what is gratitude? In fact, gratitude contains many meanings and connotations.
Gratitude is optimism. Thanks for difficulties and setbacks, isn't it optimistic? Thank the opponent, thank the enemy, don't look good? For some people and things we don't like very much, isn't it optimistic to try to think about its positive side, its benefits to us and thank it? Therefore, gratitude is an optimistic attitude.
Gratitude is politeness. Someone helped us, and we casually said "thank you", which may bring a warm current to each other's hearts. Someone has done a lot for us, and we thank him. He may help us more. With a grateful heart, it is courtesy and gratitude. Therefore, gratitude is a polite quality.
Gratitude is a brush. Learn to be grateful, and life will become extremely wonderful. Grateful to describe life, the great freehand brushwork in life is vividly painted; Decorate the scenes in life with exquisite elegance; Describe the nuanced brushstrokes in life delicately and exquisitely. Therefore, gratitude is a pluralistic art.
With a grateful heart, yes, it is good to be happy, which is a reward for our kindness to life; Just being angry is the time to cultivate our patience; Just mourning is a harbinger of God's greatness to yourself, so you have to suffer my heart first; Happy is good, it is the smile that life returns to my quiet life. So, what will affect your calm mood? Others are not good to themselves because life implies that we have our own defects, so we should actively improve them; Others are kind to themselves because life tells us to make persistent efforts to make more people like themselves. The same is true of the success or failure of a career.
Finally, let's end today's speech with a short story: A monk named Fo Yin went out with his friends. When passing by the seaside, I was slapped by my friend. Fo Yin wrote angrily on the beach, "I was beaten." . While crossing the primeval forest, monk Fo Yin was saved by his friend in distress, so he wrote "Saved by XXX" on the rock. A friend asked him strangely why he wrote it in different places twice. Fo Yin replied: the pain of slapping is like the sea diluting the words on the beach and soon disappearing; The kindness of caring for each other, if carved in stone, will last forever and be remembered forever.
Learn to be grateful for life, quiet and peaceful.
Learning to be grateful is a small virtue, and ingratitude is a great evil. In life, there are always many things that affect our mood, either happiness or trouble. Therefore, what kind of mentality we choose to face life means what kind of life we choose.
A big ship with hundreds of people on board caught fire and sank into the sea. Many people lost their lives, only 90 people survived. One of the passengers is a good swimmer, who swam back and forth for more than a dozen times. After saving 20 people in a row, he was severely cramped and disabled because of overwork. He kept shouting and asking himself: Did I try my best? A few years later, on his birthday, someone asked him, what is the deepest memory in life? He said sadly, I remember that none of the twenty people I saved the most came to thank me.
Gratitude is not a negative fatalism, but a positive lifestyle! Learn to be grateful and don't remember people who are not good to you. The writer Yu Jie once said: Hating someone hurts yourself more than hurting the other person. Learn to be grateful, repay kindness without ingratitude, the kindness of dripping water should be repaid by a spring, and a mountain will be returned to people after reclamation. Learn to be grateful, and know that giving others an opportunity is giving yourself an opportunity. Give someone a rose and leave a fragrance. If you help someone today, if you are in trouble tomorrow, someone will help you Life is a mirror, learn to be grateful, always smile at life, and life will smile at you.
I thank my parents for giving me life and a warm home. A solid and warm haven will always be my shelter.
I thank my teachers, who smile like sunshine to soothe the wounds of my heart and write immortal and brilliant chapters with regretless youth.
I thank my friends and classmates, who make me feel happy in the collective life. "Friends are the greatest wealth in the world." Let the student days become the truest and purest page in the photo album.
I thank those who have given me kindness, because they make me feel that the world is full of truth, and there is not only invisible air in the gap between people. They gave me the opportunity to repay others, and at the same time made me realize that the happiness of helping others is beautiful. They let me see the dawn of hope, changed my depression, and sailed to the other side of my dream in a boat of action.
I am grateful to those who are dissatisfied with me and laugh at me. It was their dissatisfaction that made me realize my shortcomings and move in the right direction. They gave me the motivation to move forward, strengthened my shaken heart and made me succeed step by step.
Gratitude, life is so extraordinary, there are gems shining in the long river of life, gratitude, life is so colorful, and it is the eternal enthusiasm given to life by all creatures. Then, let's join hands, close our eyes and sincerely pray to heaven. May everyone in the world learn to be grateful!
Learning to be grateful is the basic moral standard that everyone should have, and it is the minimum accomplishment of being a man. Many people, many things, blame comes from not knowing how to be grateful, crows have the meaning of feeding back, sheep have the grace of kneeling, don't know how to be grateful, and lose the emotional foundation of love. Learn to be grateful, thank your parents for their upbringing, thank your teachers for their teaching, thank your classmates for their help, and thank all those who are kind to you and help you, even those who are not hostile to you.
China is an ancient civilization, and only those who know how to be grateful to their parents can be considered as complete people. Because of my parents, I was born, which gave me the opportunity to experience the warmth and coldness of life and enjoy the joy and happiness of life in this colorful world. They gave me life and meticulous care. When children are happy, they are happiest with their parents. When children are depressed, they are most concerned about their parents. The love of parents is as deep as the sea. Therefore, regardless of parents' social status, knowledge level and other qualities, they are our greatest benefactors in this life and people worthy of our love forever.
I heard from the teacher that a famous college student applied for a job in a company. The manager asked him, "Have you bathed your parents?" "Never." "This time tomorrow, please try again! But on one condition, you must brush your parents once before you come here. Can you do it? " Poor child, who lost his father when he was a child, earned money by working as a servant with his mother. When the young man came home, he looked at his mother after a hard day's work and decided to wash her feet. Mom was surprised and said, "I can still wash my feet." At her son's insistence, his mother sat down. His son brought the basin and put his mother's feet in it. When he held his mother's feet in his hand, he found them as stiff as sticks. He couldn't help crying with his mother's feet: I was at ease spending my mother's money when I was studying, and now I know what my mother has paid for them! The next day, the young man came to the company and said to the manager, "If it weren't for your guidance, I would never hold my mother by the foot. Thank you, manager. I will take good care of my mother and never let her suffer again. " The manager nodded and said, "Come to work in the company tomorrow!"
However, last September, a school newspaper arrived, and parents of students were carrying big bags and small bags on campus. In the office where daily necessities are collected, parents of students are crowded into a pile; Even in freshmen's dormitory, parents are busy scrubbing doors, windows, tables and chairs. A gray-haired father took out his son's certificate from his coat pocket, asked the office about the situation, raised his hand to wipe the sweat from his forehead, lifted a big suitcase, bent down and labored to another check-in point in the scorching sun. However, the son took a small package and followed him gently ... one washed his mother's feet and the other made his father bend over. What a sharp contrast!
Please let me remember with you that we should "wash our feet" for our mother and not let our father "bend over". The parents mentioned here include biological parents and many people, including teachers, that is, the people. We are all children of the people and the people are our parents. We should also "wash their feet" and not let them "bend over"!