People with more emotional communication are emotional animals, especially teenagers, who have very strong emotional needs. In the face of this complicated world, their consciousness is gradually increasing, and there are many puzzles in their hearts. What they need most is a spiritual mentor. Where can there be a better spiritual mentor than parents? Don't use busy work as an excuse, you must communicate more and learn more about your child's situation, especially psychologically.
Example is more important than words. We need to understand a truth: children will not do what you say, but will do what you do. None of us will respect those who only talk big but never realize it. So are children. Set an example for children through their good behavior in daily life. For example, if you want your children not to smoke, then don't smoke or quit smoking yourself.
Understand the relevant knowledge Many parents don't understand the laws of their children's physical and mental development, which leads to improper education of their children.
Each age group has its own characteristics. In adolescence, children's demand for independence is very great, but some parents don't understand that blindly helping their children make decisions affects their independent development and leads to their rebellion.
Studying together Many parents think that children should focus on their studies, especially in China, where many parents judge heroes by their scores. There are many such scenes in life: parents ask their children to do their homework, but their children are playing mobile phones or watching TV. Parents and children should grow up together and study together.
The rebellion of teenagers and children is a heart disease for most parents. Some parents think this is normal. How can teenagers not rebel? Some parents are worried that nothing will happen to their children. No friends, no smoking and no drinking. Once the child has a problem, parents start to find trouble with the teacher, thinking it is a school problem. In fact, family is the most important school. How to do family education in adolescent psychological rebellious period?
Maintaining a harmonious family atmosphere is of great help to children's growth. In the family, children can learn to respect and help each other. In short, children who grow up in a loving environment will know more about love and be more capable of loving others. Generally speaking, adolescence can be passed more smoothly.
Keep close contact with teachers. Education has never been separated. Family, school and society are integrated in education.
As a parent, you must not feel: teacher, everything is under your control! Education is everyone's business, so we must communicate with each other, learn about children's situation in time through teachers, and exchange experience in education.