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The girl was slapped with boiling water by her classmates in the dormitory. Do educated abusers deserve to be forgiven?
Being educated can only show that the perpetrator has been punished, but the harm she has brought to the victim is indelible. From this perspective, she doesn't deserve to be forgiven. In addition, the punishment of the perpetrator is completely unequal to the harm she caused. Whether she can realize her mistake is still unknown, and it is too early to talk about forgiveness easily.

First, this kind of campus violence is mainly based on education, which has little warning effect. Due to age restrictions, many similar cases are now based on academic qualifications. Although it is understandable that some of them need a chance to turn over a new leaf, the vast majority of campus violent people will not correct their behavior because of the light punishment. Judging from this incident, these children can't be unaware of the serious consequences of boiling water splashing on people, but they still make such atrocities against their classmates, which shows that these people lack certain empathy. In their eyes, the lives of classmates can be said to be insignificant.

When the injury has been caused, no matter how to make up for it afterwards, it is difficult to smooth out the injury suffered by the victim. From many cases, children who suffered from severe school violence in adolescence often live in the shadow when they grow up. In the long run, it is difficult to equate the punishment suffered by the perpetrators with the pain experienced by the victims. ?

Second, this age is the golden age of psychological development. This kind of behavior is not good for the abuser and the victim. With the continuous development of the Internet age, many children are becoming more and more precocious, and they know exactly what they are doing. Because of this, the education and regulations related to them should also keep pace with the times. This period is the golden period of psychological development. If the psychological problems of these abusers cannot be corrected correctly during this period, they will become a major hidden danger in society when they grow up.