1. Keep in touch with children and treat them as friends. If children have difficulties, we must help them overcome them together, so as to win their trust. Entering the heart, children will naturally listen to their parents.

Parents need to pay attention to their own educational methods. In order to teach by example, they should set an example. Many bad habits of children come from imitating their parents. Changing children begins with changing parents.

3. Establish family rules with children, let children take the initiative to become supervisors and executors, and mobilize children's responsibility to maintain rules.

4. Timely rewards and encouragement. Parents need to give timely rewards and pertinent encouragement to their children when they do something wrong, so as to strengthen the establishment of their correct values.

5, the education of children should be carried out separately, don't educate children in front of outsiders, don't hurt children's self-esteem. When educating children about conflicts, parents should change the subject and wait until things have passed before educating them.

Why do 6-year-olds rebel?

1, parents' neglect disappointed their children.

Some parents don't like their living conditions, and their children usually bring them more trouble, which makes them less interested in communicating with their children. Children who grow up in this environment are often disheartened by their parents' neglect. They want to seek others' concern, so they make some friends at school or in society, but because they are too young, they don't have a correct concept of right and wrong to distinguish people, and they are often deceived because they trust others too much.

2. The method of meeting children's needs is not appropriate.

Children who are disobedient are always angry with their parents. It is not that they have nothing to do, but that their inner needs are not met. But when children were young, they probably took some inappropriate ways to express themselves, such as crying, screaming, direct refusal and so on. This kind of behavior often annoys parents. They will think that their children are annoying, noisy and ignorant, so they will blame or threaten him, or talk about some big things, hoping that their children can understand and correct them immediately. ?

In fact, when this happens, what we should do at the first time is to understand the real needs of children and let them express themselves correctly through constant inquiry and communication. As for whether the children's needs are reasonable, whether parents compromise or insist, this is the next thing to do.

3. There are conflicts in daily habits.

Adults and children have different thinking and living habits, and daily contradictions are inevitable. Children don't know how to use chopsticks when they are born. They all catch them by instinct. It is even more impossible for children to fall in love with learning as soon as they enter school. Most children find learning boring and difficult to stick to.

Children's nature is to do whatever they want, frown when they are unhappy and cry to their parents: "I don't want it!" " I won't do it! "This is of course wrong, but when we see children doing things that adults can't understand, don't be angry and scold in a hurry. We should help them form correct habits with the patience of teaching children to walk and use chopsticks.