First of all, I want to say that threatening education has both advantages and disadvantages. After all, for some Xiong Haizi, only occasional threats can achieve the desired effect. Even in some cases, threats can make a person give up the wrong choice, and may even save a life. But the topic is always threatening education, which shows that things have reached a very serious level. If you want your children to meet their expectations, always threatening them is likely to make them develop in an extreme direction. Therefore, the appropriate threat is beneficial, but if it is excessive, it is incorrect.

Always educate children with threats, and children are likely to develop in two extreme directions. On the one hand, your child's mind will become more and more fragile. After entering the society, he will encounter his own setbacks, easily waver and go with the flow. For risky things, I dare not try it easily, and it is easy to be pushed around by others in a threatening way. On the other hand, your child may go on the road of breaking the law and committing crimes, which may sound too serious. But in fact, due to the threatening family education of parents, children often learn from their parents, and the way of learning this threat will be reflected in the campus. School bullying's leaders are basically family education issues. What they are best at is threatening their classmates with threats, and we often see such scenes in film and television dramas.

No matter what, it is not conducive to the healthy development of children's body and mind, and it is not conducive to children's adaptation to this society. I remember when I was a child, my father's favorite saying to me was that if I failed the final exam, it would be fifty sticks to serve. Can this way really improve my academic performance? However, this is not the case. I studied hard, and my parents' pressure didn't make my grades go up. After the final exam, the score did not reach the expected effect of my father. I learned to lie and told my father that I would not inform my report card this time because of the educational reform. As an uneducated rural father, he certainly believed my story. But as I grow older, I understand more and more that no matter what way it is, as long as its end point is good, there is still a temperature in this way. Although I have fatherly love, I don't want to accept it.

Therefore, I object to always threatening education. If adults can give their children more encouragement and less pressure and threats. Even if they don't achieve the expected goals, their personalities can develop in a sound direction, and they can grow up happily into adults, giving you more warmth in the future.