In the face of adolescent rebellious sensitive children, parents or teachers do not handle them properly, which is likely to lead to tragedy. So what should parents do in the face of the sensitive topic of puppy love?

1, stabilize your mood and stay calm.

Many schools and parents have a very unified attitude towards puppy love. They regard puppy love as a scourge, and when they first discover it, it is like being in danger, thinking about how to stop it quickly. But in fact, parents' overreaction and arbitrary handling will only make the problem worse and worse, or stimulate children's rebellious psychology. If parents find that their children have symptoms of puppy love, they should first keep calm, find out the ins and outs of the matter, and then make countermeasures.

2. Seek opportunities for communication

After a preliminary understanding of the child's situation, parents can choose a suitable scene, for example, when going out to play or watch movies, they can talk to their children in a relaxed environment. For example, understand the current state and mode of getting along between the two children, and how to treat each other's relationship. Don't blame the children blindly, but show your position: understand but don't support, talk to your children about the pros and cons of puppy love, and leave them time to think for themselves.

3. Give children knowledge of puberty.

Parents can usually use books or popular science videos to educate their children about puberty in specific environments or occasions. For example, girls have menarche, boys grow beards, etc. This is not to support children's puppy love, but to let children understand the changes in adolescence and learn how to protect themselves. Know which behaviors are allowed and which behaviors are not allowed to cross the line.

4. Guide children to concentrate on their studies.

In the face of children's puppy love, most parents are probably most concerned about learning, fearing that their children's falling in love will affect their study. However, there may be many reasons for the decline of children's grades, such as the relationship with classmates and the difficulty of learning. , and can't simply and rudely put them down to puppy love. Parents should guide their children to concentrate on their studies, so that two evenly matched people can last long. Parents should encourage their children to study under the premise of ensuring the quality of learning.

Puppy love is actually not terrible. Parents should not be too nervous, keep a good attitude, communicate with their children at ordinary times, listen to their inner voices and master the correct handling methods. Puppy love may also make your children better.