1, to understand children's hearts, children are willful and disobedient, and they don't accept what adults say, often because adults don't understand children's hearts. We should look at the world from the standpoint of children, feel it with children's hearts, and make fewer mistakes when disciplining children.

2, don't give in, don't be soft-hearted when children cry, give in, and be obedient. Once children find that willful crying can blackmail adults, they will continue to develop viciously.

3. We should meet the needs properly and meet the reasonable needs of children in a reasonable way. Don't wait for the child to lose his temper willfully, and then agree to the child's request. For those who cannot and should not be satisfied, we must adhere to principles and not compromise.

4. Create opportunities for collective life. Collective life is a good way to get rid of egoism. Collective life has its own norms and rules, and children don't like loneliness by nature. This is a very good way for children to overcome the waywardness between partners and in the collective.

5. Ignore willfulness. Some children are willful and want to attract the attention of adults. At this time, we just ignore it, it's just self-defeating.