Understand the principle of things, sharpen the environment and refine things.
These twelve words are the essence of Yangming's mind and the three realms of the unity of knowledge and action in Yangming's mind. Understand before you act, and do whatever you want.
Understanding is the first step of Yangming's theory of mind. It is understood that everyone has a conscience, and everyone has a conscience. Everyone is a saint, and everyone is a living Buddha and a future Buddha. We should all help more people awaken their conscience and let one more person with conscience around us.
Children are educated at home. After learning Yangming's mind, I realized that I was the root of all problems. My mind is rational. If there is a problem, I should look at myself and change my mind. This is wise.
But when children are disobedient and slow to do their homework, they will start to get angry, point their finger at them and start looking for ways to educate and manage their children everywhere. In the end, the children have not changed. A pair of parents who don't like learning play games and brush Tik Tok every day. They are really accusing their children of learning, not reflecting on themselves, not paying attention to communication methods and attitudes, not setting an example, and only looking at academic performance. Isn't this ridiculous? This will make things worse.
? Children are unwilling to learn because they are too afraid to resist, but as they grow older, they begin to resist disobedience and become more and more rebellious in adolescence. This is the result of parents being unreasonable, persuading others, refusing to accept others, putting the blame on their children, keeping up with other children, and seeking outside rather than inside.
There is a TV report that a family's children are full of problems in adolescence. Parents feel that there is something wrong with their children and see various psychologists. Finally, they were sent to a mental hospital, where the children were tortured for three years. Later, they came out and found that it was not the child who was mentally ill, but his mother who was mentally ill. Isn't this the sorrow of family education and the sorrow of children?
After understanding this truth, we should control our emotions when educating our children, reflect on our educational methods, don't panic when things happen, look at ourselves if there are problems, and don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Hone your mind on every little thing, improve your mood and pattern, and you will certainly reach the highest level in educating children.
First-rate parents are role models, second-rate parents are coaches, and third-rate parents are nannies. Parents are the root of children's problems, children are photocopiers, and parents are photocopiers. Knowing this, we should reflect on ourselves in children's family education and school communication.
? I reflect on myself three times a day to see if I have set a good example at home. The Analects of Confucius says that I am upright and don't obey, but I am not upright and don't obey.
? Let's start from now on. If you want your children to love learning, parents can put down their mobile phones and pick up books from now on.
? If you want your children to be bold and confident, don't nag and label them negatively from now on, then find the bright spot of your children and praise and encourage them from now on.
If you want your child to be sunny and handsome, don't drink and socialize now. Take your child to exercise once or twice a week, practice martial arts boxing or climb mountains.
? If you want your children to stand on their own feet instead of just being Nuo Nuo, you should let go of your doting and everything, let the children make their own decisions, and let them try to fail, do housework and do their own thing.
? We can't take care of children all our lives. Children will leave their parents sooner or later. Don't cut off their flying wings under the banner of love. Then let the children live the life they want, not the life their parents want.
? Now, let's put down the mobile phone, reflect on the way of education, pick up the book and start reading, write it in the notebook to reflect on our mistakes, find the bright spot of the child, and make him the bright spot and bright spot of life.
Knowing and doing are one, knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the result of knowing. Ten thousand people know, it is better to do it alone. Theory guides practice, reflecting on problems in practice, summing up experience and starting to act.