Nowadays, when educating their children, many parents constantly reflect that their children are becoming more and more difficult to discipline and very disobedient. The former "good boy" is no longer excellent. Parents and children have been unable to communicate normally. In view of such a problem, in fact, all families and parents have a common problem, that is, parents simply do not have a good grasp of the concept of educating their children.

The parents in the whole family do not have their own basic concept of family education. There is a saying that "everyone's good children are boasted good children". In fact, this sentence still has its truth. This sentence is used in present life and extended to family education life, which is called "appreciation education".

So what is appreciation education in family education? "Appreciation education" means that parents should discover their children's advantages and talents in time, give them praise and encouragement in time, constantly encourage their children to move forward, and let them carry forward and develop their own advantages and strengths.

It is very important for parents to grasp a "degree" when conducting "appreciation education" for their children. It should be remembered that they should never praise their children too much or criticize them too much.

How to truly grasp this "limit" in "appreciation education"? 1. Be positive when appreciating children.

Some children like courses outside the regular curriculum very much. For example, my cousin's children are not very serious in class, but they are particularly excited and happy when they attend interest classes. But when they send their children to school, they are like "frosted eggplant" in an instant.

Compared with regular classes, dancing, singing, writing calligraphy, playing chess and other courses are quite attractive to children. Children just like them, but sometimes they just stay on the surface. Such children have not conducted in-depth research and investigation, and the cultivation of such academic achievements is actually a waste of children's time. Children not only can't learn things, but even form habits that children can't stick to.

At this time, parents should play the role of "appreciation education" in time, praise their children's hobbies in time, but criticize education when they are not careful.

For example, when a child is learning to play the piano, parents can praise the child in time that you have made a little progress. Play more vividly and make people feel clearer. If the child is playing a little carelessly, parents can criticize the child a little at this time and tell the child that he is playing a little carelessly and a little lifeless now, but the most important thing is to give the child an encouraging way when summing up, that is, to tell the child that the Hong Kong slaves are playing well on the whole and have made great progress than before, especially for the first time, which is a good performance.

2. Parents should be "appropriately sarcastic" when they appreciate their children.

It is natural for children to love to play. There are no children who don't like to play. Many times children are so happy that they can't remember many things. However, parents can't let their children forget the time, which is not good for their children, but they can't completely control their behavior and don't let them play. Sometimes parents don't know how to deal with problems like children.

Here is a suggestion for parents. They can choose to mention what happened with their children today and the fun of playing together today when eating. Some children will be happy to share it with their parents. At this time, mom and dad can appropriately say: Start today, but we must sign you up for any game or project you play. You must take the first material. A slightly understanding child must understand that this is not a compliment to the child, but a "satire" to the child's statement.