With the development of human society, children's education has been paid more and more attention. After entering the 2 1 century, people have different opinions on the practice of educating children by violence.
So, what impact does violence education have on children?
1, I feel that I am not a good boy. If a child is beaten when he makes a mistake, he will gradually feel that he is a bad boy and can only be corrected by beating and cursing.
Such children will lack normal self-knowledge, self-confidence and extreme inferiority in the future, which is very unfavorable to the formation of children's character.
2. It is not conducive to the normal development of children's psychology. When children make mistakes, parents will use beatings to solve them, which will make parents form a habit and be willing to solve them with simple violence.
Normal children often realize their mistakes through reasoning and persuasion, and avoid making mistakes again.
Children who are beaten are often unaware of their mistakes. This cycle will only hinder the normal psychological development of young children.
It is easy to imitate bad violence. Parents are the first teachers of the children. When faced with problems, parents use violence to solve them. Then, when the child has an argument with his partner, he takes it for granted that only fighting can make his partner obey his own ideas, which explains why domestic violence families are more likely to have juvenile offenders.
4. Children can't get better introspection. Often beating and scolding children will make children have a natural reaction when facing mistakes: fear of upcoming snoring, fear of physical pain, and extreme fear of parents.
Imagine, when a person makes a mistake, what is the correct way? It should be self-reflection, self-reflection, being able to learn lessons and correct them in time.
But for children who are often beaten, fear trumps introspection. Parents should be as kind as possible and educate their children with violence, which will not only solve the fundamental problem, but also bring deep harm to their children and ruin their beautiful life.