So what good study habits do we need to cultivate children?
1, classroom study habits: preview, listen attentively, take notes, speak boldly, be good at asking questions, and review and consolidate at home.
2. Work habits: write neatly-finish homework independently-sort out wrong questions.
3. Decentralized memory: The required vocabulary for senior high school entrance examination English is 16 17, three years 1096 days, with an average of 1.4 words per day. Who doesn't remember?
4. Reading habits: Some people say that if children develop good reading habits, it is equivalent to installing a growth engine in their minds. To cultivate children's interest in reading, we must first make children happy in reading and guide them correctly on the basis of happiness.
To cultivate good study habits at home, we can start from the following aspects (for reference):
1, parents should set an example, don't get together at home to play cards, don't watch TV while their children are doing homework, and try not to do anything at home that distracts their children's attention and affects their study.
2. Children must have a clear study time after school, and generally will not change it at will.
3. It is stipulated that children should not do other things unrelated to learning without completing their learning tasks.
4. Put an end to children's bad habit of eating while doing homework.
Parents should try their best to accompany, assist and urge their children to complete their learning tasks, and can't leave them alone.
Four guides for children of any age.
First, have a heart-to-heart conversation with your child, not a threat.
Second, describe to the child what he may encounter, and then ask him how to deal with it. If his answer is wrong, don't embarrass him, help him realize the wrong handling and possible consequences, and treat this communication as a game, so that your child will be happy to make the correct answer.
Third, review these questions frequently so that children can remember them.
Fourth, let children practice correct behavior. Many children will say what to do, but they can't actually do it.
Below we list several situations and suggestions on how to deal with them. You can describe them to your children.
You and your mother are in a big shopping mall or a beach or park. You paused for a moment because you were looking at something. I looked up and found that my mother was gone. Then you can tell reliable people that you are lost. If you are in the shopping center, you can walk into the nearest store and tell the cashier. If you are on the beach, tell the lifeguard. But never walk up to an adult and tell him that you are lost.
1. You were alone at home and heard the doorbell ring. You look out of the cat's eye and see a stranger. Never open the door to a stranger when you are alone at home, even if the stranger says it's urgent or he is a policeman or your mother or father asks him to pick you up. But don't ignore the doorbell. The holder may be a robber. I want to find out if there is anyone at home. You can tell strangers through the closed door that your mother is resting and you won't open the door. Please ask him to come again next time. Then you can call your parents or neighbors and say there are strangers at the door. Please don't hang up before he leaves.
When you walk home and find an adult man following you, you can cross the road or turn to another road to avoid contact with him. If a stranger continues to follow you and forces you to follow him, you scream and run to a crowded place nearby, such as a shop or intersection. Don't run to the first house you see, it may be empty, and don't run to your own house, maybe there is no one at home at this time.
It's midnight, everyone in the family is asleep, and suddenly you wake up because you hear the fireworks alarm, and then you have to shout, "Fire!" " Wake up the whole family and leave the house immediately. Use the evacuation method you reviewed in the home fire drill to evacuate to the pre-arranged place outside. If there is smoke indoors, you should lower yourself and climb out. If there is a lot of bleeding in the wound, tie it tightly, but not too tightly, until the bleeding can stop, then call your parents or neighbors.
4. You and a friend are playing by the lake or swimming pool. He suddenly fell into the water and couldn't swim. Don't jump into the water to save anyone unless you have received considerable life-saving training.
The difference between our education and American education is that we always say "you should be careful", which is equivalent to nonsense. Children will get bored if we talk too much. But it's clear and specific here. First of all, don't scare the children. For example, "If you don't open the door, thieves will come in", "You are not allowed to eat strangers' food, they may steal children's things" ... When talking to children, you must be calm and specific. For example, if you go to a shopping mall, you get lost because there are many people. What should you do at this time? If you don't tell your child in advance, the child will run around crying, and finally no one can find anyone. Be sure to tell a reliable person that it is not reliable to look at this person alone, and find someone who works in this place. ...
And what if your little friend falls into the water and you can't swim? Then you can't save him, because it would be tantamount to suicide. But to call the people around you quickly. Not to lose himself, but to find someone who can save him. Therefore, we must learn to protect ourselves and save others on the premise of protecting ourselves.
The other is the problem of ideas. Confucius once told an example: it is a fool to fight with his bare hands when he meets a tiger; A river, you jumped into it without a life jacket and a life buoy, and you drowned yourself. Confucius said that these were not what he admired. Without preparation, it is difficult to rush forward unconditionally, which Confucius disapproves of. Another thing happened to Confucius, that is, he tried to cross a city wall, but he saw a crack in the wall. what should he do ？ Confucius said to rush there. We should minimize the danger, not afraid of 10 thousand, just in case.
Children will encounter many dangerous or unexpected things when they grow up. In order to avoid children's danger, parents should educate their children how to save themselves or others. Now many parents will let their children learn Taekwondo or other martial arts, which is also a good way. On the one hand, it can enhance their physical fitness, on the other hand, it can protect their personal safety.