Content: My father said in an accusing tone, "I don't study hard, play with my mobile phone and lie." "I know it's right!" The child bowed his head and said nothing, and there were some people around him. Is this video real or for traffic? From the perspective of a parent, I don't criticize my children's mistakes in front of outsiders, especially those made at home. If parents really want to go to education, they won't show their "dirty laundry", and they have to kneel in front of everyone and accuse them. The father and son knelt down to educate, and who was "wrong" was puzzling. Every child has self-esteem. In front of outsiders in the street, he knelt down and scolded his father. In fact, children don't cry or "resist". If the child is afraid of his father, he will cry Then the father will find that the children often watch their mobile phones at home. If the father wants to stop it, the child will never look at the mobile phone again. The child doesn't look small and doesn't "run", forcing his father to take "extreme measures", which is a bit divorced from reality. Personally, I think. Is this video telling us that he is a strict father?
Another video: A father and son go to a restaurant for dinner. They took a lot of food, but dumped it in the trash can. Father saw it and didn't say anything, just picked up the food in the trash can and ate it. The boy cried and told his father not to eat, but his father ignored him and continued to eat. The child realized that he was wrong. Originally, this video told us to save food. My father's education method has been praised by many people. Over time, it turned out to be a video, not a "real" actor. The trash can is clean. Some people really imitated it. At that time, they felt very naive. If the father is smart, he should educate his children at home instead of showing his "so smart education law" in public. I don't quite agree with these "extreme education" for traffic and fame.
Every parent loves their children and will not let them get hurt, but try their best to protect them. It is impossible for children to put down their self-esteem to educate their children at the wrong time, so that children will also be hurt, and children may be unable to lift their heads all their lives. Before going out, the child will make three chapters with the child, and will talk about some matters needing attention when riding, eating and playing. During the summer vacation, I took my two children to a buffet. I will eat very little food. If children eat too much food and find it inedible or unpalatable, they are not allowed to eat it. I will eat what they haven't eaten, and I will tell him clearly what tastes bad, so that they can remember not to eat next time. We basically eat when we leave, not as exaggerated as Tik Tok. Playing mistakes outside will also be a kind of language education, so that they can take the initiative to apologize to others, and then I will apologize.
I am not a smart parent, but I would never do such "extreme education". I'd rather go home behind closed doors and educate them in a way I think is feasible. I won't hold my children's faces and do things that hurt them in front of others. Parents are actually the best teachers for their children. They should do what they are asked to do first. You tell your children to go to bed early and get up early, but you go to bed very late:1112 o'clock to play with your mobile phone, and get up at10/in the morning. Did you do it? You tell the children not to swear. Did you do it? You let the children do their homework, and you play with the mobile phone. Will your child finish his homework carefully?
How many programs performed by the "actors" in the video come from real life, how do the "actors" and their relatives feel, and whether these two videos are "deceptive". Honesty is the principle of being a man. The content of the film should be true and not exaggerated. No parents are willing to hurt themselves and their children and do such extreme things. Even if it is true, please protect their self-esteem and lofty image in their hearts. The best way is to educate at home, which will also reduce the avoidable mistakes children make outside.