10 is easy to spoil children's various behaviors.

Give children special treatment.

Children are superior at home and receive special care everywhere, such as eating alone. In the long run, children will become selfish and unsympathetic.

2. Children make mistakes to protect their faces.

Many parents protect their children's mistakes on the grounds of "don't be too strict, TA is still young", which will make their children have no concept of right and wrong and cause personality distortion.

3. Pay too much attention to children

A family cares about children all the time, and the transfer around TA makes children feel that they are the center.

4. Easily meet unreasonable demands

Parents give their children whatever they want, so that TA will develop a character that does not know how to cherish, pays attention to material enjoyment and does not care about others.

5. Allow children to live a lazy life

Allow children to be picky about food, stay up late, play freely, etc. It is easy for children to lack self-motivation and perseverance and muddle along.

Begging for children

If you coax your child to eat at the same time, promise TA to tell three stories and then finish the meal. The more you beg, the more shy your child becomes. Not only can't distinguish right from wrong, but parents' prestige will also be exhausted.

Step 7 arrange substitution

Some parents never let their children work, but they have to feed them at the age of three or four, so that their children must not do any housework at the age of five or six. Will become hardworking, kind and capable.

8. Make a fuss

When children are ill, parents panic and spoil them blindly, which will eventually lead to children becoming timid without their parents.

9. Deprivation of independence

"I am afraid of melting in my mouth, and I am afraid of flying away when I spit it out." Such children are prone to dependence, bullying at home, being timid outside, and forming personality defects.

10. Fear of crying

Parents who are afraid of their children crying are incompetent parents and will sow the seeds of selfishness, ruthlessness and willfulness in their children's character.

Mom's article

1. Bad-faith mother

You must do what you promised, otherwise your mother's prestige will disappear and your children will become more difficult to educate. A mother's dishonesty will set a negative example for her children and lead to the possibility of dishonesty.

2. A mother who speaks ill of her father

The child is half from the father and half from the mother. If you deny one of your parents, you deny half of your children.

3. Mother who loves to compare with others

Always compare the shortcomings of children with the advantages of others. Blaming the child will make the child unconvinced and disgusted, which is not good for cultivating the child's character and self-confidence, and will also make the child feel that his mother does not love TA.

4. Mom who always says "I did it for you"

Some mothers always seem to have endless thoughts, but some just plan their children's lives without authorization under the banner of "for your own good". Some roads are for children to break through. This is TA's life.

5. Mothers who don't respect their children's privacy

Some mothers like to disclose their children's privacy when chatting with others. Every child needs his own private space.

6. A grumpy mother

Some mothers treat their children as punching bags regardless of right or wrong, which will make them feel guilty. The child mistakenly thought that his mother was unhappy. In the long run, children will feel inferior when they grow up.

7. Poor crying mother

"Do you know how difficult it is to raise you?" This sentence hurts children very much. You can tell your child what you can buy, what you can't buy and why you can't buy, but don't always say "no money"

8. Too "humble" mother

When children show their best projects, sometimes mothers always say that their children are not doing well in front of others to show modesty. In fact, proper encouragement is more conducive to the growth of children.

9. Mom who always plays with her mobile phone

When the mother neglects the child because of playing the mobile phone, the child will feel that the mother is perfunctory and naturally unwilling to communicate with him. If parent-child communication is blocked, children will become withdrawn and autistic.

Dad's article

1, grumpy dad

If the father has a bad temper, he will always hit people and swear, and the child may be even deeper. Dad is irritable and irritable, and may also make the child form a humble and cowardly character in fear.

2. Don't understand mom's dad

Some fathers are accustomed to their wives' efforts, and even push the responsibility of educating their children to their mothers, which will make their children feel insecure. Children's greatest sense of security comes from their parents' love for each other.

3. The father whose children are absent from education

From dad, boys will learn masculinity, while girls will learn how to get along with the opposite sex. As a father, no matter how busy you are, you have to bear the responsibility of raising children, which is a veritable "father tired of relatives."

4. A father without integrity

A father who keeps his word is not only an example in children's minds, but also the best education for children. Writing empty checks often will not only lose prestige, but also be detrimental to cultivating children's sense of responsibility.

5. A controlling father

If children always act according to their parents' ideas and have no choice for a long time, they will be eager to leave the family independently and become more and more rebellious.

6. A nagging father

Some fathers don't like reading books themselves, but they educate their children all day, "Stop watching TV and read books." In fact, the father is "original rot" and the child is "copy". What a father wants his children to do, he must first start from himself.

7. Dad with bad habits

Some men pay little attention to personal hygiene. Children who don't like to take a shower and brush their teeth can't tell right from wrong, just follow the trend. Fathers who like smoking and drinking will have a subtle influence on their children.

8. overly strict dad

If the father always treats his children severely, it will be easy to alienate them after a long time.

Ten knives for family education

Knife No.65438 +0: Too much care causes children not to cherish. Many parents are always cautious about their children, but children don't know how to be grateful. If you care too much, you will take it for granted. After a long time, children will not cherish it.

The second knife: too much nagging causes children to rebel against their parents. Every "preaching" is to stand on the opposite side and accuse him. Parents arm themselves with authority, and children protect themselves with emotion.

The third knife: too much intervention leads to children's lack of autonomy. Many parents love their children very much. They can't wait to get dressed, feed and do their homework. If parents always intervene and do it for them, they will deprive their children of the opportunity to grow up.

The fourth knife: too high expectations make children unbearable. If parents expect too much from their children, it will cause great psychological pressure on them. Once a child can't finish it, he will blame himself, be hit hard, and lose confidence in serious cases.

The fifth knife: too much blame causes the child to lose motivation. Some parents will only blame their children when they encounter problems, and will make them feel inferior if they don't want to solve the problems. It is said that "parents are the best teachers", children's Excellence is inseparable from their parents' education, and children's problems are also related to their parents.

The sixth knife: too much accommodation leads to many problems in the growth of children, and many bad habits will also be formed. If parents give in repeatedly, they will spoil their children. Love without rules and connivance without bottom line will only hurt children.

The seventh knife: caring too much, causing children to intimidate their parents. Many parents take their children too seriously to distinguish right from wrong. As a result, they humble themselves to the earth, but the children are ungrateful. A pair of child-centered parents will lose themselves.

The eighth knife: enjoy too much, which leads to children's ignorance of thrift. Many parents have misunderstood the phrase "No matter how hard you suffer, you can't suffer your child". Everything is for the good of your child. As a result, the rich aristocratic children were desperately poor, but they raised a black sheep, which made the children selfish and lost their ability to be independent and love.

The ninth knife: too much satisfaction leads to children's lack of happiness. Some parents think that trying to satisfy their children is the best support for their children. The fact is that the easier it is for children to be satisfied, the less they know the truth of no pains, no gains.

Knife 10: Too much love makes children grow up and spoil them like killing them. It is the nature of parents to spoil their children. However, if you spoil your child too much, it will make your child don't know the rules. If you don't enter the society carefully, you will definitely lose badly.