First, how to correctly educate children about puppy love;

1. Let children clearly realize the harm of puppy love and overcome this immature feeling with reason. The most direct harm of puppy love is that it seriously interferes with learning. Because thinking about your favorite opposite sex all day and all night will make children have no mind to study, feel that learning is not very interesting, and it is difficult to concentrate in class.

Because you don't listen carefully, your academic performance will get worse and worse. Parents can guide their children to shift their time and energy to intense study and healthy after-school hobbies, pay more attention to state affairs, participate in group activities, talk more about literary classics and philosophical articles, think more about their own progress, think more about their future career and think more about how to explore and forge ahead in a complex society in the future.

In this way, our minds and horizons will be broadened, our ambitions will be lofty, and we will be full of vitality and move forward forever.

2. Be your child's mentor and don't aggravate the contradiction. Boys and girls in psychological closure period can expose their privacy, which just provides us with educational opportunities. Parents should be children's mentors and friends to win their trust. Don't treat puppy love as a scourge, it is a natural expression of human emotions.

By talking about life, building ideals, discussing morality and comparing learning, we can guide children well and answer questions for them. When encountering puppy love children, parents and teachers should extend warm hands, give warmth to their loved ones, and do a good job in patient, meticulous and arduous influence and ideological work. You might as well consult educational experts and psychologists to teach lost children. I believe that children will change.

Second, how to prevent puppy love:

1. Establish a correct view of learning

As a student, first of all, we must have a good outlook on learning and must concentrate on learning. As for the topic of love, it is too early to say. At this time, students must straighten their psychological state and make clear their tasks. Only in this way can we solve the problem of puppy love

2. Teachers should be strictly managed.

For students, sometimes, the idea of falling in love is normal, because they have entered adolescence, but teachers should strictly control it. Even if the child can't understand the teacher's intention at the moment, as a teacher, he must supervise the problem of puppy love.

Teachers should educate children more.

Strict management is on the one hand, and children must be educated more on weekdays. If there are signs, it is necessary to communicate with children alone, not just compulsory prohibition. Let children realize the seriousness of the problem.

Students should be aware of the harm of puppy love.

Puppy love may not only affect your study, but also affect your future. If you can't get into the same university, you will have a long-distance relationship in your later life, or you will break up awkwardly and your feelings will be hurt. If you can realize this, I believe that the situation of puppy love will be much reduced.

Put each other first.

Since you like each other, you should be considerate of each other, not selfish, and put each other first. It is very important to know what is most important for the other person now, and academic performance is the most important, so if you are studying, you can help her.

You can spend more time with her, encourage each other and learn from each other, and then after graduation, you still have a chance to develop again. If you don't have this ability, you'd better not bother her.