First, be equal with children and be friends with them. Traditional education in China believes that parents should be uncompromising, no matter right or wrong, always in the name of being good for you, no matter what their children really want. I think a good educational concept is equality, and having children is the choice of parents, not children. Parents can pass on their experience to their children instead of letting them live according to their own ideas. There is an old saying in China that a stick gives birth to a dutiful son, which I think is totally wrong. This kind of filial son is stupid even if he is filial, and he can't do anything. It is correct to be friends with children, understand each other's ideas and think from the children's point of view.

Second, despise exam-oriented education and pay attention to quality education. Don't discuss Chinese math homework with children every day, that part is the teacher's responsibility. Pay more attention to children's psychological state and practical ability, cultivate children into a person with three views and emotional intelligence, so that children can cope with various problems and face them positively when encountering setbacks. High marks and low abilities are not talents, but people with good academic performance.

Third, take more children to see the world. Reading thousands of books is better than reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is better than reading countless people. I don't think we should blindly raise children in poverty, which will only raise children who are inferior and easy to be cheated. Take more children out to see the world, so that you can calm down on any occasion. In addition, whether you are poor or rich, you should build up your self-confidence for your children. Children from poor families are often sour when they see the rich second generation, or they always want to take advantage. Anyone's consumption view depends on this person's consumption ability. Don't always be a selfish person in the stock market. Don't eat grapes and say they are sour.

The fourth and most important point is to learn to respect. Respect the self-esteem and low posture of the poor for survival, and respect the attitude of the rich to enjoy life. Everyone has his own experience and choice. We should treat others equally and respect them.