First, admit individual differences, but treat every child fairly in thought.
There are no exactly the same children in the world. Every child has his own personality and temperament. Although the two children are from the same mother, they are completely different in temperament, appearance and personality. It is because of all kinds of differences that parents can't treat every child completely fairly. However, this does not mean that parents can be partial. Ideologically, parents should treat every child fairly, which is the foundation.
Second, let children know how to care for each other.
When children are very young, parents should instill the idea that the two babies are the closest to each other, so that children can care about each other from the bottom of their hearts, especially Dabao, because the arrival of Bao Xiao not only takes away the love of parents, but also brings more care to their younger brother or sister. For example, one day can be designated as a caring day every month to let the other person feel caring.
Third, formulate rules and supervise their implementation.
Parents should make family rules and supervise their children's implementation. Fiona Fang cannot live without rules. With rules, children will have rules to follow when they encounter things or problems. They feel that parents are treated equally, so that they can get along naturally. For example, when going to the supermarket to buy things, my family's rule is that every baby can choose a snack he wants to eat, and he can't buy more for Bao Xiao just because he is small or crying. It is the same requirement for both children, so naturally you can't make trouble without reason.
Fourth, let children learn to deal with each other's problems by themselves.
As children grow up, problems will inevitably arise between them. As parents, don't be an arbiter when facing children's problems. You should know how to listen, help children understand the truth, and let them learn to solve their own problems slowly. Otherwise, once there is a contradiction, the phenomenon of family complaints will intensify and there will be bad blood between the two children. Moreover, children should be encouraged to communicate more. Communication is not only conducive to enhancing the feelings between children, but also easy to eliminate misunderstandings. Maybe some problems between children are caused by misunderstanding. When the misunderstanding is eliminated, the problem will be solved by itself.