When children have emotions, it is actually an opportunity for parents, because it is a good opportunity to teach children emotional management. First of all, when children are emotional, they should try to be rational, avoid parents' bad temper, calm themselves down first, and then communicate with children. Secondly, parents should actively listen to the child's expression, understand the child's unmet needs and why there are emotions. Only by truly understanding what the child is for can they feel the same with the child. Finally, parents can teach their children to express their emotions in a positive way. They can analyze the source of this emotion with their children and what happened in the process. Let them know that it is normal to have emotions, sometimes without restraint, but they can also express their ideas in their own language.

Emotions should not be blocked.

It is normal for children to have emotions. In fact, when many children vent their emotions, parents turn a deaf ear to reprimands, which is actually unfair, or some negative emotions generated in life need to be vented in some appropriate ways, so once emotions are generated, they should be channeled instead of preventing children from expressing them. For example, when children feel frustrated, they can express their emotions and relieve psychological pressure by crying. Or tell others what happened to them by talking to them to seek sympathy, understanding and support.

Give your child some tolerance.

Every child is an independent individual, and every child's growth is different. Therefore, in this process, parents should be as tolerant as possible, don't rush for success, wait patiently for their children, and slowly learn to control their emotions. At the beginning, there may be no way to do it well and achieve the expected results, but believe that children can grow up slowly. Don't give children too much psychological burden, which is not conducive to their healthy growth.

Finally, parents have a great influence on their children, so parents must attach importance to their children's family education and let them grow into a person with high emotional intelligence.