However, some children will not take the initiative to take responsibility after making their own mistakes. On the other hand, they will also escape loudly and say, "This has nothing to do with me."
Sometimes parents will see their children importune, and children will not take the initiative to admit their mistakes, so they will stop talking about themselves. This is a major manifestation of their irresponsibility. If parents don't correct it in time, it will lead to a sharp decline in his emotional intelligence. So it may affect the future development. Imagine working together in society in the future. Who would want to work with such a dishonest person?
2. It's all mine. In the process of teaching children, we will certainly hear them say, "It's all mine." It is very likely that in their impression, children are just a kind of self-identity, and there is nothing wrong with it, but if your children are possessive, then this is not a normal development trend. It is the child's psychological distortion and does not like to share with others. Such children generally have low emotional intelligence. It must be corrected in time, otherwise the child will become selfish in the future.
3. People who don't have high emotional intelligence for me will have high responsibilities and responsibilities. Even if they make mistakes, they will face them bravely, and blindly following the trend will lead to lower human feelings, because we are afraid to deal with incorrect things immediately. They are afraid of annoying others and being accused by their parents, so even if they can say that they have done something wrong, they need to pass the buck to others. This is also irresponsible. In the long run, children will become weaker and weaker.
To cultivate a healthy child, we must first let them learn to take responsibility, because a sense of mission is really important to children, especially boys and children at home. Only by learning to take responsibility can we become more reliable and attractive in the future.
4. You are really annoying. Some children often say "you are so annoying". For example, when parents come home at night, they will let their children do their homework in English for fun. If the child doesn't listen, he will often pout with his mother and the child will look a little angry. This kind of children have no ability to adjust their emotions and their emotional intelligence is not high.
If your child often says this, it means that his emotional control ability is poor and it is not easy to consider other people's feelings. We should correct this in time and educate children to vent and control their emotions appropriately. Only in this way can we achieve the effect of improving emotional intelligence.
How can parents cultivate their children's EQ 1 and shape their optimistic attitude? You will encounter such problems in your life. Only by looking at them positively can you solve the difficulties well. Because when you face setbacks, you don't have to have too many negative emotions, because it will affect your mood and lead to a decrease in your confidence.
Therefore, if parents want to improve their children's emotional intelligence, they must first shape their children's positive and optimistic mentality. Only in this way can his children have a more promising future in the near future.
2. It is also important to shape children's interpersonal skills. As they enter the society in the future, they are more likely to succeed only if they have good interpersonal skills, because no one in this society can develop alone. Only when you learn to make friends will you have many opportunities. Parents can usually bring their children to play with people of the same age, or let their children come to their own homes to play. Children who have frequent contact with children will gradually improve their interpersonal skills.