Moreover, in China, everyone stresses grades, so if a child's grades are not good, it will actually be eliminated by society. Great pressure of life in contemporary society.

Parents know better than anyone, so they want their children to suffer more when they are young, or they will be even worse when they grow up. Although many children want a happy childhood, parents who know that life is not easy will make their children suffer early and enjoy later.

Professor Guo Guan: The essence of education is to achieve social stratification. In fact, many parents are confused about educating their children, because they don't want their children to lose a happy childhood and earn money hard when they grow up.

Therefore, after weighing the pros and cons, most parents may still let their children study hard when they are young to avoid self-blame in the future. Professor Hatsune Hatsune of the School of International Relations said in a program that in fact, happy education can really make children happy for a few years, but after a few years? Often the debts owed in childhood need to be paid back in middle age and old age.

In fact, Professor Chu Yin is absolutely right. The essence of education is to realize social stratification. Social reality is so cruel. It takes more time to enjoy it, but many parents are still in the dark.

After reading Professor Chu Yin's remarks, many netizens disagreed. According to statistics, the more money you spend, the better the educational conditions.

If the family conditions are average or poor, then the children have already lost at the starting line, not to mention what life they have changed. People who have no life experience and background may get what they have worked hard for. In fact, this is to let you accept your fate.

Liu Yu, an associate professor in Tsinghua University, said in a speech that her daughter is trying to be an ordinary person, because she doesn't want her children to obey secular wishes, but should really find the value of life and realize self-sublimation.

Many netizens lost their temper again, thinking that Liu Yugan dared to say such things, because their whole family was born in Tsinghua Peking University, and their children would receive a better education in this environment.

But many children in ordinary families can only study hard if they want to change their fate. But in retrospect, such a vicious circle of competition mode, it is easy for children to grow into a step-by-step person, without their own thoughts and feelings, thus becoming meaningless.

Therefore, it is better to educate children not to give them too much pressure, let them find what they like, and strive to truly realize their life value.

How should "ordinary children" realize their own life value? 1. Find your place and work hard to achieve it.

Many people think that their lives are inferior to others. In fact, this idea is very problematic. Your life is your own, not others'.

So you shouldn't live in the shadow of others, find your own goal in life and work hard in the right direction. Success is a very good thing.

2. Keep learning, keep pace and decide your own destiny.

Many times people always complain about the unfair fate, but how do you know that others are different from you? Many people want to have a full meal.

However, you still think that life without food and clothing is still very painful, which should not be. If you want to be better, then studying hard is the most important thing.

Step 3 lead an active and serious life

Many people always complain about life. In fact, life does not depend on others, but on how you create a better life. If you can treat life with a positive and sunny attitude, then natural life will not treat you badly and will make you better.

Summary 1. It is unwise to blindly follow others.

Your own life may be bad in the eyes of some people, but it must be envied by others, so don't force yourself too much. The most important thing is to make yourself happy and live happily.

2. Communicate with friends and family around you.

Many times people always push themselves to the wall, and sometimes communicating with friends will make them open a lot, so that their mood will be better and their life will be easier.

Here, I want to remind everyone that everyone is under pressure. What we have to do is to relax and relieve the pressure. Only in this way can we continue to strive for a better life.

Even if we don't succeed, we don't need to be discouraged. After all, there is only one life. There is no need to be busy all your life and get nothing. Don't neglect the people around you. Let yourself have no regrets.