Autocratic type

Autocracy, also known as dictatorship, is a severe upbringing, a combination of high "demand/control" and low "acceptance/response". Adults usually put forward many rules and expect children to strictly abide by them. They seldom explain to their children the necessity of obeying these rules, but rely on punishment and coercive strategies (such as arbitrary rights or withdrawing love) to force them to obey. Authoritarian parents can't be sensitive to their children's different views, but want their children to obey and respect their authority. This is a very strict way of education.

laissez-faire

Laissez-faire is a combination of low "requirement/control" and high "acceptance/response". This type of parents will indulge their children, ask less, allow them to express their feelings and impulses freely, do not closely monitor their behavior, and rarely make tough control over their behavior. This is an accepted and laissez-faire way of education.

Authoritative type

Authoritative type is a combination of high requirements/control and high acceptance/response. This type of parents will put forward many reasonable requirements for their children, and will carefully explain the reasons for asking their children to comply, so as to ensure that their children can follow the guidance, and they will formulate clear rules and implement them. Compared with authoritative parents, authoritative parents are more able to accept and respond to children's views, recognize and respect children's views, and control children in a reasonable and democratic way. This is a controllable but flexible parenting style.

Neglect type

This is a combination of low requirements/control and low acceptance/response. This type of parents rarely participate in the growth of their children. They either refuse their children's requests, or they are too concerned about their own affairs and rarely invest time and energy in their children. They have almost no rules and requirements, and they ignore or are insensitive to their children's needs. This is a very laissez-faire and low-demand parenting style.

Different parenting styles are different for children.

Generally speaking, the authoritative parenting style has a greater positive impact on children, and children are more likely to show the characteristics of being positive, active, self-controlled, independent and able to communicate well with others.

Children brought up under authoritarian upbringing are more likely to be unhappy, unfriendly and easily angered.

Children who grow up in a doting way are more self-centered and willful.

The laissez-faire parenting style is more likely to have a negative impact on children and make them show aggressive behavior when they grow up.

Every parent can choose the education method that suits them and their children best. Parents' parenting style is proper, and children's personality will develop in a better direction. If it is improper, it will be counterproductive.

No matter what kind of parenting method is adopted, parents need to give their children more love and attention, be able to listen to their children's voices patiently and know how to appropriately motivate their children to grow up.