Open dialogue
I will try to have a frank conversation with my children. I will frankly express my disappointment and worry, and listen to my children's views and feelings. Through communication, I hope to understand the reasons behind the child's behavior and try to establish a deeper connection and understanding with him.
Reflect on one's own way of education
I will reflect on my educational methods. Adult children's behavior does have a certain relationship with their parents' education, so I will reflect on whether there are problems in my education methods, whether there are some blind spots or negligence. I will reflect on whether I have given enough love and guidance in the process of education and whether I have cultivated children's good values and codes of conduct.
Consider the influence of other environmental factors.
However, although parents play an important role in education, children's growth is also influenced by other environmental factors. Society, peers, schools, etc. It will have a certain impact on children. Therefore, I will also consider the possible influence of these external factors on children's behavior and try to help children establish correct values and codes of conduct.
Seek professional help
Besides, I will seek professional help and support. If I find that I can't solve my children's problems or cope with their behaviors, I will seek the help of psychological counselors, family counseling experts or other professionals. They can provide professional advice and suggestions to help me sort out the current situation and formulate more effective strategies.
Continue to give children love and support.
Most importantly, as parents, we should continue to give their children love and support no matter how they behave. Although we may feel disappointed and heartbroken, children are still our relatives. When they encounter difficulties, we should give them support and help, and try our best to guide them on the right path.