Nowadays, the biggest headache for many parents to educate their children is to help them learn, because most parents expect their children to succeed. It is such high requirements and standards that we are a little too hasty in educating our children now.

Nowadays, most children are required to be exposed to ancient poetry when they are one or two years old. However, these children simply can't understand the true meaning contained in ancient poetry. Their parents or kindergarten teachers asked them to recite these ancient poems. Although it is everyone's responsibility to learn China's classical culture, for those children, cramming education will only make them feel disgusted with it.

And now many children are sent to various interest classes by their parents after school every day, but parents never think about whether their children are really interested in these interest classes. They just don't want their children to lose at the starting line. This kind of compulsory education may not be helpful to their studies. However, children's education should not be rushed. We ask children not only to learn knowledge, but also to be happy and improve their interest in learning.

We should know that every child is an independent individual, and we should not be too hasty in educating children, because education needs to follow the children's growth laws and their own characteristics. As parents, we should educate our children according to their different characteristics, instead of cramming and forcing them, which will gradually reduce their interest in learning. However, parents' eagerness to educate their children will only lead to children's unique imagination and creativity not being fully released, which will lead to most students being disheartened and even not interested in learning. Therefore, parents must not be too anxious in educating their children.