Although Lin Daiyu, the initiator of My Lovely Girl, is the only daughter of Jia Min, the daughter of a Jia official, and her father Lin Ruhai is a salt official, she is a veritable lovely girl. But unfortunately, her parents died young, and she was an orphan. Finally, she went to her grandmother's house, the Jia family, the head of four families in Jinling. Jia naturally felt very distressed about her granddaughter, and her fate was bumpy and she pitied her in every way. Moreover, the Jia family has a rich background, and it is not difficult to raise a good girl at home. Plus, as Lin Ruhai's only daughter, Lin Daiyu has a large legacy, and Jia Fu certainly won't mistreat her.
No matter from the angle of affection or from the angle of Lin Daiyu's high net worth, Jia Fu will treat Lin Daiyu well. In fact, Lin Daiyu's life in Jiafu is not bad, and she is treated like a lady. But in ancient times, it emphasized the patriarchal clan system. After all, Lin Daiyu is not from the Jia family. Even if Lin Daiyu is valued by the Jia family, she can't really become the wife of the Jia family. This is also the fundamental reason why Lin Daiyu was unhappy all the year round when she lived in Jiafu.
Jia Tanchun is to understand such a truth, so the famous brand in her heart has no place for Lin Daiyu. Jia Tanchun's heart is first Jia Fu hero Jia Yuanchun, then Jia Fu's ancestor, and then according to Jia Fu's status. Big and small days of the year, whose birthday is Jia Fu, she remembers clearly. There are masters, young masters, wives and young ladies here. It can be said that Jia Tanchun has taken care of everything. Of course, these people are either descendants of Jia's family or married to Jia's family, and Lin Daiyu is not the justified wife of Jia's family. So Jia Tanchun said that no one had a birthday in February, and he ignored the birthday of Daiyu Lin outside Jiafu.
Mrs. Wang, according to the ancient patriarchal clan system, Lin Daiyu is really not the wife of the Jia family, and Jia Tanchun can understand it without taking it to heart. However, Lin Daiyu grew up in Jiafu after all, and grew up with Jia Tanchun and others. From an emotional point of view, it is natural for Jia Tanchun to remember Lin Daiyu's birthday. But Jia Tanchun deliberately forgot Lin Daiyu's birthday, because she didn't want to offend Mrs. Wang.
Mrs. Wang is Jia Baoyu's biological mother. She only has two sons. After Jia Zhu's early death, Jia Baoyu became Mrs. Wang's only support. Jia Baoyu's personality is stubborn, and Mrs. Wang hopes that Jia Baoyu will become a success, also for Jia Baoyu to take over the Jia family smoothly in the future, so Mrs. Wang took great pains in choosing Jia Baoyu's wife. But Jia Baoyu loves Lin Daiyu, which makes Mrs. Wang very dissatisfied. Lin Daiyu is fine, but she has two serious injuries, which Mrs. Wang Can can't accept. First, her family came down, her parents died young, and she couldn't help Jia Fu in the future. Second, Lin Daiyu's fragile body and personality certainly have no energy to manage this huge Jia family, and it may be difficult to have children.
So the more Mrs Wang looks at Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, the more she looks at Lin Daiyu, two of a kind. Jia Tanchun was born in an ordinary woman, and his biological mother, Aunt Zhao, came from a small family. She has no money and no right to say anything, and she is still a concubine who can't get on the table. Mrs Wang was Jia Tanchun's first mother. After Jia Tanchun gets married, Mrs. Wang will make a decision. That is to say, the marriage that determines Jia Tanchun's fate is tightly held in the hands of Mrs. Wang. Jia Tanchun is an ambitious concubine, and it is too late to curry favor with Mrs. Wang at ordinary times. How could she offend Mrs. Wang for Lin Daiyu? So Jia Tanchun didn't dare to offend Mrs. Wang, and naturally she didn't remember Lin Daiyu's birthday.