It can be seen that kindness is the realm respected by philosophers, a pure and detached feeling in the heart, and a calm, smooth, down-to-earth and generous lifestyle. Only by having a kind heart can we smile at everyone around us better and make life better.
Kindness is a noble quality and a good social atmosphere. With kind children, we can get the love of others, get along better with others and live a happy life. So what does kindness mean? Kindness means sympathizing with the unfortunate and helping the people in trouble.
There was once an expert in preschool education who went to a kindergarten for a psychological test. One of the questions is: "A little sister caught a cold. She was shivering with cold. Would you like to lend her a coat? " As a result, none of the children answered. When the teacher asked questions by name, the first child said, "Being sick is contagious. If she wears my clothes, I should get sick, and my mother will have to spend money. " The second said, "My mother will hit me if she won't let me." As a result, more than half of the children found various reasons and expressed their reluctance to lend their clothes to their sick little sister.
This shows that many children now lack a kind heart, and most of them are self-centered. There are people around who need help, and many children will think about whether their interests will be violated for the first time. This is actually directly related to the education of parents. For parents, the lack of moral education is a very serious problem. Without moral education, the facts and development of any education are useless. Parents should fully realize that good moral quality is very important for their children's growth and happiness all their lives.
As the saying goes, "Rome was not built in a day", good feelings and self-cultivation are the core of humanitarian spirit, which must be carefully cultivated in childhood, otherwise it will be difficult to have an effect. Therefore, parents should show sincere feelings to the people around them and help those who are suffering and unhappy around them. If parents can infect and edify their children with their kindness and sow the seeds of kindness in their children's hearts, then children can grow into healthy, kind and upright people.
There was once a mother who was very busy at work, but in order not to let her children develop the shortcomings of eating alone, being selfish and not thinking of others, she took her daughter to an orphanage and claimed a little sister. That little sister is still an invisible child. The mother took pains to take care of her little sister with her daughter. In an instant, eight years have passed. In the past eight years, this mother has made unimaginable efforts, overcome unimaginable difficulties and gained her daughter's excellent character. When my daughter grows up, she is not only kind, but also considerate, and getting along with her classmates and colleagues is also very popular with everyone. Because she always treats others with a kind heart.
It can be seen that good education for children from an early age can better cultivate their excellent quality and is conducive to their healthy growth and success.
People are based on goodness. The most important thing for a person is to have a kind heart and treat life with kindness, which should be the moral norm that a person pursues all his life. Therefore, parents should sow the seeds of kindness in their children's hearts and let them become a kind person.
Kindness education begins with caring for small animals.
Kindness education for children can start with guiding children to take care of chickens, ducklings, kittens, puppies, flowers, fish and insects around them, so that children can know how to cherish life, learn to be considerate and close to life in the process of taking care of small animals themselves. This kind of "physics teaching" will often receive a subtle educational effect.
Xiaoming's mother is a very kind person, and she will also use her own personal actions to educate her children to be kind. Once, an injured sparrow fell into Xiaoming's yard, wet, weak, dying and miserable. Mother carefully picked up the sparrow with her hand, dried its water, put it on the dry balcony, brought it a small bowl of water, sprinkled some rice grains, and let it eat and drink in a warm room, not frozen or hungry. Later, the sparrow was full of energy, so her mother let it go. Xiao Ming witnessed all this, and his little heart was infected, and his understanding of kindness infiltrated into his mind imperceptibly.
Strengthening charity education should start from the family.
Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. Family education should give priority to kindness education. Some parents only care about their children's cultural achievements, ignoring their kind education and paying attention to talent rather than morality. They are indeed tragic figures who are excellent in their studies but extremely selfish, immoral and bring shame to their parents. Therefore, in order to strengthen the goodwill education for children, parents must not go against the trend, otherwise, good flowers will bear good results, and it will be too late to regret.