Many parents, in order to make their children succeed in the future, always strictly discipline their children and hardly give them any chance to breathe. As everyone knows, this increases the pressure on children and has no effect on their growth. In normal life, these behaviors of parents are likely to cause stress to children.

Keep nagging in the child's ear

Many parents, especially some mothers, have a common problem, that is, they especially like to nag in their children's ears for fear that they will forget their goals, and they are always urging and reminding them.

At first, it may make children feel refreshed, but no one can stand nagging for a long time, which will definitely make children feel impatient.

And impatience is just a situation. Some children think that their parents have very high expectations of themselves, so they don't like to disappoint their parents and have been forcing themselves to study and work hard. But the more children do this, the lower their learning efficiency will be, and their grades will get worse and worse. Slowly, the child will feel guilty inside.

(2) put the ideal on the child.

As the old saying goes, "Have a baby and fulfill your unfinished dream!" Some parents may not be very successful when they are young, or they may not realize their original dreams, so they pin all these ideas on their children, completely ignoring their own interests, and only hope that their children can follow the path they have planned for their children

I think this method can make children take fewer detours on the road to success, but for children, this is not what they want, and this is not necessarily their own life. Sometimes parents' goals actually confuse their children. Children who live in such a family for a long time will gradually get tired of learning. (3) Pay more attention to children.

Every child is the darling of parents, so they are caring for their children. Moderate care can make children feel warm, but if parents care too much, even involving children's privacy, it will definitely cause children's resentment.

For example, some parents rummage through their children's notebooks in the name of their children's well-being, casually go into their children's rooms to rummage through things, or casually ask their friends about their children's situation.

Although parents intend to be good for their children, they are actually easily disgusted and resisted by their children, which will also increase their anxiety and make them feel uncomfortable and stressed.

If parents keep pushing their children, resulting in "excessive force", it may have a very bad influence on children.