Education is an important part of family education, but many parents ignore it. They follow the traditional educational concept and put their children in a superior and subordinate position, which makes it difficult for children to understand and accept. This paper will discuss the control of parents and the freedom of children in depth to help parents better understand the importance of educational methods.

equal status

Parents want to communicate with their children, but they often don't give them equal status. Once questioned, verbal violence will flood in. They expect their children to be strong and confident, but at home they are asked to do what they say, and they are scolded, criticized and even abused in front of others.

Unforgettable injury

Many parents control their children with their own ideas, which brings irreparable harm to their children. And those controlling mothers and controlled children are even more distressing.

Control and freedom

Education is the process of casting swords, but these parents are more like controlling the sword holders before meeting wild animals. How will a child without a sword face the challenges of the future? Parents should give their children freedom and let them grow up in freedom.

Lack of patience and friendship

When children do something wrong, they accuse all actions, but they don't help; They are ecstatic about doing the right thing, but they ignore the efforts behind them. They lack patience and companionship, which are the foundation of family education.

Relationship between parents and children

Parents love their children deeply, but sometimes it is difficult for them to understand and accept because of improper ways. They follow the traditional educational concept and unconsciously put their children in a superior position, which leads to extremes meet. Parents should establish an equal relationship with their children and let them feel warmth and love in the family.