On 20 11April1day, Wang, a student studying in Japan, had an argument with his mother at Shanghai Pudong Airport over tuition fees and stabbed her to death with a knife. After the incident, many people wondered why this 23-year-old boy would hurt his relatives.

In April 1, 20 1 1, a student studying in Japan surnamed Wang quarreled with his mother at Shanghai Pudong airport over tuition fees and stabbed her. After the incident, many people wondered why a 23-year-old man stabbed his mother.

From Yao Jiaxin's incident to the murder of Lu Gang, a doctoral student studying in the United States, to the recent stabbing death of his mother by a student studying in Japan, we can find a common factor behind these extremely vicious incidents: family education places one-sided emphasis on knowledge and scores and separates other emotions.

From Yao Jiaxin to Lu Gang, an American doctor, who was involved in a murder case, to Japanese students stabbing their mothers to death, we can smell a common factor in a series of similar incidents: family education unilaterally emphasizes knowledge and grades, but emotionally separates parents from children.

Parents pay too much attention to knowledge and grades, and all other emotions are separated. Children become scoring machines, and danger is about to happen.

Parents pay too much attention to their children's knowledge and scores, but they are emotionally isolated from their children, so their children become a scoring machine. But now the danger is instantaneous.

On the surface, they have achieved good academic results and mastered many skills, but he has become a heartless and heartless person, and his goal is only to surpass others.

On the surface, they may have better grades and mastered many skills. He became a man without emotion and personality, just like a cold fish. His goal is just to surpass anyone else.

In fact, family education will undoubtedly have a great impact on a child's physical and mental growth, and will also shape or form a child's moral outlook and attitude towards life. Therefore, every family should pay close attention to this problem and attach importance to the moral and physical development and growth of children.

In essence, there is no doubt that family education greatly affects children's physical and mental development, and cultivates or remolds his or her moral outlook and attitude towards life. Therefore, every family should pay close attention to this issue and strive to pay attention to children's moral and physical and mental development.

Even in the Bible, it is said that "a child can't make a weapon without beating it", which is exactly the same as the old saying of China that "a jade can't be cut without cutting it".

Even a good book says that "a stick is idle, but a child is used to it", which is quite similar to what the China people said: "An unwrought gem can't do anything useful".

Therefore, China people have been accustomed to this way of discipline since ancient times: subordinates will use force (rough) if they don't obey. It is quite a bit like "those who follow me will prosper, and those who oppose me will die".

Therefore, China people have been accustomed to this way of discipline or rule since ancient times: ruling the lower class with iron bars or resorting to force, which has the implication that "those who are obedient will prosper, and those who are disobedient will die"

In fact, this view is completely unreasonable. * * Every child should be disciplined, but should not lose dignity and moral norms, and should not be physically and mentally hurt and distorted by the strict discipline of parents during the child's growth.

In fact, this view is unreasonable. Obviously, every child should receive decent and moral training, but should not be brutally tamed in the process of growing up, so that his body or mind is deformed.

Although there is no fixed model for family education, it should be more open and not stick to the rules.

* * Family education should be more open and flexible, instead of sticking to the rules or following the rules. **

However, parents should consult competent education experts about family education, learn from them, realize the truth, and learn to teach and discipline their children.

However, parents should communicate with competent educators and experts, learn valuable experience, and effectively know how to educate and discipline their children at home.

Or, we can say that children are flowers, which need careful cultivation, care, enlightenment and even domestication, so that children can get useful inspiration from them.

Or we can say that a child is a flower that needs careful care, polishing, pruning and even enlightening taming.

It goes without saying that family education will have a great influence on each of us.

It goes without saying that family education can exert the greatest influence on each of us.

My neighbor's 8-year-old daughter used to live in the country and was used to everything in her hometown. The child is savage and ill-bred. When he is unhappy, he curses and curses. In this case, her parents had to punch and kick her, trying to make her learn to be smart, but contrary to expectations, the little girl's temper became worse and worse, which was beyond description.

My neighbor's eight-year-old daughter used to be in the countryside, her hometown. She is bohemian and uneducated, and will swear or swear when she is unhappy. Her parents tried to tame her by punching and kicking, only to make her more violent.

One day, the neighbor next door gave the little girl a snow-white dress, which was so beautiful! When the little girl put on a skirt, she changed completely. She won't swear anymore, and she won't fight with other children, because she knows that wearing such a beautiful skirt to run wild will not damage her beautiful image!

One day, their next-door neighbor gave the girl a white dress, which was very beautiful. The girl put on her skirt and became a completely different person. She stopped abusing or beating others, knowing that it was beneath her to run wild in such beautiful clothes.

Love is like air. We breathe fresh air every day and get a steady stream of oxygen, which nourishes our body and mind, but it is invisible and often ignored by us.

Love is like air. We breathe a steady stream of oxygen every day to nourish our body and mind, but the air is intangible and invisible, so we ignore it.

Love can touch everything. How pure and transparent love is! How great love is! Children's growth depends largely on their parents' educational methods.

All people can be moved by such pure and transparent love. How great love is! The healthy growth of children depends largely on parents' educational methods.

Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, parents should find suitable educational methods for their children! Let the children truly become Jackie Chan and Phoenix! Let's work together to make the world full of love and let us and our children live better.

Next (from here; The conclusion is that) for the healthy growth of children, support parents to seek and determine appropriate educational methods! May all our children become elite talents and have a brighter future! Let's join hands and make greater efforts to make the world happily integrated with (lucky) love, so that we and our children can have a better and better life.

Topic discussion

1. Suppose you were a parent and faced with a wild and uneducated child, what would you do?

Everyone knows that it is wrong to spoil or indulge children. However, how can we reshape the child into a well-behaved child instead of a docile and obedient child?

If you are not married and have no children, can you tell us a story about your unsatisfied growth or happy growth in childhood? Or you may say some of your own ways to educate your own children in the near future.