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Positive discipline-fill your own cup of love
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Each of us has a cup in our heart, which contains all the good feelings and needs for love. When the cup is full, we will feel very happy and patient, set an example to influence children and pay attention to the long-term educational effect of children. At the same time, we will be full of confidence and gratitude to our families and children. This is the feeling that we want to have as parents and friends.

When the cup is empty, we can't feel love, we will lose patience, and we won't pay attention to the long-term educational effect of our children. At the same time, I lose confidence in myself and others, thinking that others are deliberately making things difficult for themselves and fighting against themselves. At this time, our emotions are on the verge.

We do our best to give our children and family the best love, and we also hope to do our best to help our colleagues and friends around us. But in this process, if we are in a state of tension and fatigue, when others need our love, our own cup is empty and can't be poured out. For example, one morning, you get up an hour early to make breakfast for the whole family, and then you are exhausted. At this time, the child found that he forgot to do his homework the night before, and began to do his homework in a hurry, ignoring your carefully prepared breakfast. You are very tired and suddenly broke out. You are angry with your children. The anxious child felt wronged. He hates you in his heart and thinks you are a heartless mother. The love between you has stopped flowing

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If your cup of love was full at that time, you went to bed early the night before. After getting up in the morning, you press the prepared bread into a heart shape with a mold, then soak it in milk and egg liquid, fry it into golden brown, and put it on a plate with some nuts and fruits around it. It only takes 10 minutes to make a nutritious breakfast. At this time, the child found himself forgetting to do his homework. You are not angry, but do your best to help him. When the children go out, you put the bread in a plastic bag and let the children eat it on the way. Children appreciate your tolerance and love. He tells you that you won't forget to do your homework again.

No one wants to hurt the people we love, but many times, we try our best to make our love cup empty, which hurts both the people we love and ourselves.

Take care of yourself to take better care of your family;

Spoil yourself first, and you will have the ability to love others;

Fill our love cup and love will flow between us and our children, family and friends.