Write down your three strengths on paper, and then write down your child's three strengths …
Thank you very much for your action. What did you find in the process? Did you write down your own advantages without hesitation or did you think about it for a long time and try to search the thesaurus to find your own advantages?
Who can have no advantages?
Have you ever heard of the barrel theory?
The law of barrel is that how much water a barrel can hold depends on the shortest board. If a wooden bucket is to be filled with water, each board must be equally flush and intact. If a board in the bucket is uneven, or there is a hole under a board, the bucket can't be filled with water.
The barrel effect says that how much water a barrel can hold depends not on the longest board, but on the shortest board. It can also be called short board effect. Therefore, each of us should think about our own "shortcomings" and make up for them as soon as possible.
Another theory is the inclined bucket theory.
Let's take a look at this photo. To put it another way, does the water capacity depend on the long board or the short board?
Yes, long planks.
Let us go far enough is our longboard, which is the advantage of each of us.
Now write your child's name in your usual handwriting, and then write your child's name in your unusual handwriting. How do you feel? Which way makes you feel better?
It takes more time, a little trouble, and even depression to use uncommon hands. Always pay attention to your child's shortcomings, just as you always let him write with hands you don't often use.
Celebrity case sharing: Hitler, Ma Yun, John? Nash
Advantages-based educational benefits:
It is found that nearly 30 years of research clearly shows that for children and adults, the advantage-based education model or lifestyle has the following benefits: 1, higher school happiness and participation, and higher academic achievements. 2. From kindergarten to primary school, the transition from primary school to middle school will be smoother. Being happier at work is more likely to persist. 4, the body is healthier and the living habits are healthier. 5, more able to face pressure and setbacks.
So what exactly is explicit parenting?
1. Starting from the advantages does not mean ignoring the shortcomings, but looking at the shortcomings from a broader perspective and correcting them.
2. The education of superiority makes us realize that superiority makes us special rather than superior, because everyone has advantages.
Superiority education is to let children always remember their own specialties and good qualities based on personality. Persisting in doing this will change your children and you.
Next, let's see how to find the advantages and light up the children's hearts.
Case Introduction (Advantages of Xiaoming in Obana)
Explain theoretically the three core elements that constitute the advantage: excellent performance, passion and frequent use.
These three elements are a cycle. Excellent performance makes children full of passion and naturally willing to do more. Repeated use will make children do better in this respect. At the same time, with this cycle, it means that you have discovered the advantages of children.
Understand 6 virtues and 24 advantages (the cornerstone of a happy life)
Omitted here ...
In the following week, invite you and your children to write down the advantages they see in each other (you can put a poster/paper on the wall)
Happy growth golden sentence
Superiority education has a coup.
Discover, develop and cultivate
Turn on the main radar
Turn on the advantage switch
Compliments based on advantages
Life will go further.
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Lecturer introduction:
Yang Dongxia
Love life, like to explore life, like all the knowledge about love, is the beneficiary and disseminator of positive family education, the counselor of adolescent psychological growth, the national second-class psychological counselor, at ease? Systematic arranger, art psychotherapist, and leader of sugar cube reading club.