Unlimited material satisfaction prevents children from learning to be frugal and manage money, and also prevents children from realizing the value of hard work.
-verbal violence hurts children's self-esteem and self-confidence, and also affects their emotional management and interpersonal communication.
-over-dependence, not giving children enough independent space and choices, depriving children of growth opportunities and sense of responsibility.
-parents' dishonesty and lying make children lose their trust and respect for their parents, and also affect their integrity and morality.
Blaming the children in front of the guests makes them feel humiliated and disrespectful, and also destroys the intimate relationship between parents and children.
-parents quarrel, which makes children feel unsafe and anxious, and also affects their mental health and emotional development.
-eccentric personality, not giving children the same love, making children feel unfair and unloved, and also affecting their self-identity and self-worth.
-Answering children's questions impatiently makes children feel neglected and not understood, which also affects their curiosity and interest in learning.
Incorrect handling of conflicts between children will help children learn violence, revenge or escape, and will also affect their social skills and emotional adjustment.
There are many ways to educate children correctly, and different families and children may need different methods. However, according to the information I found on the Internet, some common and effective methods are:
-Don't use violence or extreme language to hurt children, but treat children with reason and love, so that children can feel respect and trust.
Care and caress children, give them more smiles, encouragement and praise, and affirm and support their efforts and success, even if it is a small matter.
-Let children learn to be independent, respect their needs, interests and choices, allow them to express their thoughts and feelings, discuss with them more when things happen, listen to their opinions more, and tolerate their different opinions from their parents.
-make children feel happy, provide them with time, places and toys for games, encourage and support their hobbies, and let them enhance their physique, knowledge and self-esteem in happiness.
-treat children's academic achievements correctly, and don't overemphasize achievements or rankings. Instead, pay attention to children's learning process, methods and attitudes, help children overcome difficulties, solve problems, and cultivate children's learning interests and habits.
-Set an example for children, let them see the excellent qualities of their parents, such as integrity, honesty, diligence and kindness, and let them imitate learning.
-family harmony is more conducive to children's growth, avoiding quarreling, accusing or lying in front of children, creating a happy and relaxed atmosphere, and making children feel safe and loved.
-Don't stifle children's interest, respect their personality and talents, don't force them to do things they don't like or are not good at, but discover and cultivate their specialties.
-communicate with children more, be good at discovering children's joys and sorrows, and understand the reasons and physiological phenomena of children's weariness of learning. Care for children and let them feel the warmth of their parents.
-Let children participate in housework, let children learn to manage money frugally, and let children realize the value of hard work? .
These are some methods I have found to educate children correctly, and I hope they can help you.