I can't talk to my in-laws and husband, take my children back to my parents' house and wait for the other party to compromise.

Children divorced before two years old usually follow their mothers. What's the point of getting married if your man can't give you an independent family?

For your children! Don't be afraid to offend your elders! Afraid of offending you, you will lose the right to speak as a mother forever! Under the strong and overbearing parents' education, your husband may be weak and will speak for his parents, but your in-laws have already enjoyed being parents. Of course, new parents have shortcomings, but they certainly won't tell you these.

In short, no one has the reason and right to deprive you of the right to be a mother! You gave birth to your own baby, not to your in-laws!