How to empathize? Mother dressed up as a beaten child and sobbed. "The child was beaten, sad and scared?" Go ahead. (william shakespeare's Little Prince Family) Only when children know their feelings can they feel safe and take effective protective actions. Let the child tell his mother what happened.

2. Tell your child the principle: hitting people is wrong. Explain the concept of right and wrong to children.

We should educate our children that when someone hits you, you are not good, you are not good, you are not weak, because you are more sensible than him. So you need not be afraid of him.

You can be angry, be sure to let the other person see you angry and write your feelings on your face. It's best to show your brave side and let the other person think that you can't be underestimated. David Ashe, brave.

According to American child psychologist Michael? Borba's advice is that when you are bullied, the expression on your face is more important than what you say.

3. Learn to protect yourself.

The school can immediately push him away and leave quickly. Or ask the teacher to watch it in front of the teacher. "When there are adults, you can ask adults for help."

Don't blame the child if he calls again.

Some children will feel guilty about hitting others, and mothers should let their children talk about their feelings. After the child is emotionally stable, it is necessary to say that the counterattack should be appropriate, pay attention to the discretion, and defend yourself.

5. Tell the child that his parents will always protect him and will always be his harbor.

Children cry if they don't fight back, and parents should not scold their children. Only in this way can education be correct.

When parents do these three things in educating their children, they will be braver and more responsible.

Parents should spend more time with them.

Many studies have shown that people who are often around their parents when they are young will become more confident, extroverted and easier to adapt to the new environment when they grow up, thus better handling interpersonal relationships. (David Asher, North? Exposure (American TV series, family) So parents can't just do their own things, just do their own things and ignore the company with their children. (william shakespeare's Hamlet and Family) You know, a little company can bring more security and confidence to children. No amount of money can buy this. Bernard Shaw.

Children cry if they don't fight back, and parents don't scold them, so education is correct.

2. Play more and socialize more.

Socialization is not only needed by big people, but also by children. There is nothing wrong with relying on friends outside. It's important to leave your parents. Friends without friends outside, it is difficult to step into society. (Bernard Shaw, a friend) Just like a child who has no friends at school, no one will help him even if he is bullied. So, what can you do besides crying after being bullied? (David Asher, North? Exposure (American TV series), so that parents can take their children out to socialize, play more and make more friends.

When a child is beaten, he cries and doesn't fight back. Parents should not scold their children, so that education is correct. 3. Children can learn self-defense.

Parents can let their children learn self-defense when they are young, make them more confident and protect themselves. (william shakespeare is proud of Hamlet) Of course, learning self-defense is not to beat other children, but to protect yourself in a helpless situation. Moreover, people who learn martial arts, whether they are learning Tai Chi or Taekwondo, attach great importance to the word "consciousness". In this environment, they are more polite to their children, not rude, and are not allowed to bully themselves at will.