First of all, as parents, you must never ask the older to give way to the younger. When there is a conflict between two children, many parents go to educate the older child without asking why, and ask the older child to be modest to the younger one. Over time, Dabao's heart will definitely feel unbalanced. Therefore, when encountering problems, we should convince people by reasoning and calm our emotions. Blood is thicker than water, and the palm of your hand is covered with meat. Parents should deal with problems in a reasonable way, and eliminate the jealousy of their eldest brother to their youngest son, which will make them love each other more.
Secondly, you can take care of the second child with Dabao. When we take care of the children, let the older children take care of the second child with you, which can kill Dabao's boring time, promote the feelings between the children and make her feel happier playing with her younger brothers and sisters. She won't be so lonely when she grows up.
? The third is to keep in touch with Dabao. Although we have a second child, we can't ignore the communication with the boss. Don't make excuses just because we feel busy having a second child, and ignore the boss's feelings. If you find that the boss has some bad emotions because of his second child, you should communicate with him well instead of blaming him blindly. Children are children after all, which makes him feel that he has not been ignored by his parents. He won't take away his parents' love because he has a younger brother or sister, but let him feel that it is natural to have a younger brother or sister. If parents are fair and just and have such conditions, they will choose to have a second child instead of blindly following the trend. I believe every parent will try to calm the boss's mood.