? Professor Qian said frankly that although children's self-confidence should be encouraged and praised, it should not be excessive. There must be pain in education. It goes without saying that education should not give in blindly, be truly responsible for children and pay the price for making mistakes. Otherwise, the children under this education will come to the society, and the contrast he faces will be enough to destroy him. We should tell our children that this society is cruel and we should be prepared to suffer a lot of grievances.
? Teacher Li believes that although the previous "stick education" has also achieved some excellent talents, for most children, perhaps because of fear and inferiority, their talents and potential that could have been displayed have been "beaten" without a trace, and their bright future has been shattered. Besides, the happiness of learning is not whether it is easy on the surface, but whether it is active or passive. If you are interested in active learning, you are willing to stay up late-the "happiness" here includes the joy of overcoming difficulties and the sense of accomplishment. This kind of "happy education" and "happy learning" is not a concession to children.
? It seems that the two articles are tit for tat, but in fact, the views held by the two teachers have certain truth and merit. Their original intention is the same, and they all want their children to get the most reasonable education!
The comments of netizens are also wonderful, as one netizen wrote: "The process of education should be lenient and strict, and love and strictness are not opposites. Both strictness and prestige should take love as the starting point, and be strict but not strict, strict and dignified, powerful but not violent, and powerful and promising. " Another netizen wrote: "Education should take love as the normal state and love as the cornerstone; Strict can only be used as a means and a means of regulation, but it must be measured. Being too strict will make all your efforts turn into light smoke and drift away from you; Excessive harshness will turn love into rebellion and even hatred. " A netizen's message touched people's hearts: "Why should we be controllers rather than watchmen in a child's life?" The child wants to fly! "A netizen talked to the point:" Now the times are different, so a new generation of individuals have different pursuits of freedom, respect and love. At the same time, people have different beliefs and values. The object of education is changing, the content of education is changing, the environment of education is changing, and the methods of education should naturally seek suitable changes. -Today's children are difficult to be educated, and the nature of children is still not much different. The essence of truth, goodness and beauty will not change much, but it puts forward higher requirements for educators. "
? Looking back on the education I received since I was a child, I have some thoughts on the current education work.
? Among our four brothers and sisters, I am the only one who goes to primary school at the age of seven, and my brothers and sisters are all at the age of six. Why? I tried to go to school when I was six years old, but I couldn't hold on for more than a month and had to go home. Because, that year, I met the strictest teacher in the school. I vaguely remember that I was full of yearning for going to school at that time. From the first day of school, I felt scared. I just came to grandma's village to go to school, and I am not familiar with my classmates. I am lonely every day, and my teacher is very strict. Some slow or naughty children are often punished. I was too scared to look up at my teacher. You can imagine how difficult it has been for me for more than a month.
The next year, when I was seven years old, I came to school again. I met a kind and knowledgeable teacher. I seem to have an agile brain. I not only reacted quickly, but also became familiar with my classmates and made many good friends. I have become confident and optimistic, and my academic performance has been far ahead.
? Later, when I was studying, I met teachers with different personalities, some were gentle, some were strict, some were lively and humorous, and some were serious. Fortunately, most teachers are knowledgeable, dedicated, enthusiastic about their work and caring for their students. Under their guidance, I successfully completed every stage of my study step by step.
? Now, I have been a teacher for more than twenty years. It's a long way from a young teacher who boarded the platform for the first time to an old teacher with some experience. I have experienced the grievances and helplessness of being angry and crying by naughty students and being strangled by unreasonable students. I have also enjoyed the relaxing moments of intimate walking and chatting with students, and I have also felt the warmth and joy of a greeting card sent by students during the holiday and a short message sent by students who have graduated for many years!
? In my opinion, education is a long and complicated process, and it is not an either-or model. Children with different personalities should also be treated differently. Some children need spring breeze and rain, while others need stormy discipline. Different things are handled in different ways. Even at different stages of the same thing, we need to make corresponding adjustments according to the changes of the situation, and we can't stay the same. Teacher Li Zhenxi also said in an article "Education cannot be without punishment" more than ten years ago: "The so-called education is nothing more than two aspects, one is personality guidance and the other is behavior norms. The former needs infection and subtle influence; The latter needs training and needs to be uncompromising. " It can be seen that in the education of children, tempering justice with mercy is not antagonistic.
Therefore, education is an art that needs love, patience and wisdom! You can't judge which education method is right or wrong in one sentence; Every student is the hope of a family, and will play different roles in the society. One standard should not be used to judge the success or failure of their education. The highest state of education is: temper justice with mercy, freedom! However, this is not a day's work. It is impossible for any teacher to properly grasp the standard of combining leniency with severity just after stepping into the podium and keep it unchanged. It is a process of tempering and gradual maturity, and it is gradually formed through reflection and long-term experience accumulation after repeated failures.
Let's start with the strict teacher I met when I was six years old. Although I don't adapt to his teaching, among several students, he has taught the most classes that have been admitted to key middle schools, and he has cultivated students' behavior habits very well. I can now understand from my heart what he did at that time, which was "deep love and conscientious"!
Easy and happy education makes students study happily and efficiently, and strict supervision makes students get tangible benefits. Necessary punishment is also an appropriate supplement to effective education. Combining leniency with severity is an effective education.
Education should be full of emotion, and any education based on love can bring a collision of hearts! Children of any age have a childlike innocence that loves truth, goodness and beauty. They like the passion and vitality of young teachers, and admire the rigor and steadiness of old teachers and the accuracy of lectures. They have strong adaptability, active thinking and rich imagination, and we can also learn a lot in the process of getting along with children.
Just like yesterday, when I was about to severely criticize my students for reading by themselves the night before, a student showed and introduced a few interesting words before class, and the atmosphere became very relaxed. At that moment, I couldn't tell the prepared severe reprimand and followed the students to Haha University. Who can tell me whether this class should be broad or strict?
(originally written on 20 16,10,21)