Children's waywardness is one of the common problems of only children, which is manifested as stubbornness and disobedience to parents' discipline. When children are disobedient, parents may be dissatisfied with their children, and then irrational behaviors such as beating, scolding, laissez-faire or compromise may occur. In order to effectively deal with children's willful behavior, we suggest the following methods.

cold-treat

When a child loses his temper or rolls around, parents should temporarily ignore him to avoid showing distress or accommodation, which will help the child make concessions.

Divert attention

Make use of children's psychological characteristics to shift their attention from persistent things to other novel and interesting objects or things, thus reducing children's willful behavior.

Prior agreement

After understanding the child's wayward law, agree with the child in advance on the code of conduct, such as "don't hold your mother when you go out today." You are really tired. You can have a rest before you go, or you won't take you out again. "

A way to motivate someone to act.

Use children's competitive psychology to inspire children to overcome their willful self-confidence, such as "Look, your little friend can do it, and you can certainly do it!"

Appropriate punishment

For young children, positive education combined with appropriate punishment can correct wayward behavior more effectively. For example, when children are willful and can't eat well, parents can take the food away after meal time, so that children can understand that willfulness requires a price.