1, set an example and be a good example for children's words and deeds.
Practice speaks louder than words. Imitation is a child's nature. If parents behave in a civilized way, children are generally polite. If parents are full of foul language and love violence, children will often export foul language and get hurt; So some people say that children are the shadow of their parents.
Parents must pay attention to their performance in front of their children, influence their children with their correct attitudes towards work, study and life, and let them learn to be human and do things in imitation.
2. Respect equality and be a close friend of children.
We should learn to think from the child's point of view, be good at respecting children, go into their inner world and bring love into their hearts.
Some parents may think that a son is a son, and Lao Tzu is Lao Tzu, and a dutiful son is born under the stick.
In fact, this is the view of the ancients. Now times have changed, and children have too many information channels. Due to the influence of real life and film and television literature, children have a strong sense of democracy since childhood.
If parents only know uniform education, it is not conducive to the sound personality development of children. This disadvantage is manifested in two aspects: first, long-term coercion makes some children only obey and blindly follow, lacking the spirit of pioneering and innovation; Second, it is easy for children to have a strong rebellious mentality and cause personality distortion.
Warm weather makes people take off their cotton-padded clothes more easily than cold wind. Therefore, many children are "close to teachers and believe in their ways" and "close to parents and listen to their words".
3. Create opportunities for children to experience success in exercise.
Let children do what they can, and encourage them to learn to observe, think, start work and use their brains in the process of doing things. People often praise someone's cleverness, but in fact, a clever heart must be clever.
We should be good at inspiring children, let them learn to experience the happiness of success, and at the same time educate them to treat failure correctly-failure is the mother of success. As parents, when their children fail, they should learn to encourage and care, not to blame and curse. Otherwise, it is easy for children to feel inferior.