For a simple example, in the early days of love, men's love is often very strong, while their daughters are very calm, but as time goes by, men's love will gradually cool down and their daughters will love more and more.
It is precisely because of these differences that men and women cannot accurately grasp each other's ideas and thoroughly judge each other's changes. Therefore, in love and later marriage, men and women will have many misunderstandings and bring many contradictions.
A girl left a message saying that she had been in trouble recently. She said that she had been in love with her boyfriend for two years, and now her boyfriend is not as active and enthusiastic as before. She suspects that men don't love her anymore, so she is worried and confused.
In fact, in my opinion, this girl is asking for trouble if she falls in love too much. As mentioned above, it is normal for men to become less enthusiastic over time. At this time, men's love will tend to be more rational and dull.
So what will it be like if a man really doesn't love? If a man doesn't love you, there will be these four manifestations. I hope your man won't.
First, refuse to communicate.
The expression of love is not exclusive at first. We all have, and we all know what it's like to love someone. At that time, we were eager to communicate with each other and get to know each other better. Even if our passion weakens and the time and frequency of communication decrease, we will not reject communication itself.
Only when you don't love, will you want to draw a line with another person and keep your distance from each other. Therefore, when a man starts to find various reasons to refuse to associate with you, it can only show that he has stopped loving.
Second, criticize and complain.
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". If you love someone, you will become more tolerant and always accept and tolerate each other's shortcomings and deficiencies. Even when we return to rational love and see these shortcomings and deficiencies more clearly, we will not regard them as the fuse of contradictions and blame and complain each other.
When a man no longer loves you, his eyes will only see your shortcomings and deficiencies, criticize your words and deeds everywhere, and always look at everything with accusations and complaints. This change is not because you have gone bad, but because he doesn't love you anymore.
Third, bad attitude.
Everyone has a temper more or less. Even lovers who are deeply in love sometimes quarrel, but even if two lovers quarrel occasionally, the main theme of life will still be gentleness. You know, no one in his right mind will regard rudeness as a way of love.
Only when a person loses the feeling of love will he treat people around him with a bad attitude. Therefore, if a man has a bad attitude towards you and his words and deeds are no longer gentle, then his heart has lost the light of love, and he has stopped loving.
Fourth, half-hearted.
We say that if a person loves more than one person at the same time, then he is not really in love with any one, because love is unique. True love will make people have no distractions, will make people single-minded and loyal, and will make his eyes unable to accommodate others.
If a man begins to be half-hearted, can't stand the temptation of the outside world, no longer keeps his distance from other opposite sex, or even begins to have an affair with other women, it is enough to show that he no longer cherishes this relationship and he no longer loves you.
Men have the above four performances, that is, they really don't love you. It's time for women to wake up.
There are often two reasons why men no longer love a woman. On the one hand, men themselves are too low-level, poor in character, lacking men's responsibility and responsibility, and simply don't understand love. On the other hand, women themselves are no longer beautiful.
For the problems caused by men, women should understand that such men are not necessarily worthy of love. You can try to change him, but if the other person is hopeless, you should know how to let go in time and don't let your happiness be destroyed by an unworthy person.
If a woman discovers her shortcomings, please change yourself first and make yourself the kind of woman worthy of men's love, otherwise, even if you start a relationship again, the ending will still be the same.