2. Dredge rebellious children in junior high school. When dealing with children's rebellion, don't just block it, block it while not blocking it, just like Dayu's water control. If parents blindly suppress all children's activities, children are prone to rebellious psychology, and after rebellious psychology, regardless of whether parents say it right or not, children will only blindly resist, which is very unfavorable to the relationship between parents and children. So the right thing to do is to tell him not only that this is wrong, but also how to make it better and put forward a reasonable solution on the basis of mutual satisfaction.
3. Junior high school parents walk into their children's lives. Try to integrate into children's lives. Sometimes the generation gap appears because people have different world views and different living environments. Try to integrate into their lives. You can try to like it, so that he will think you are more like his friend, and he will tell you what he thinks, so that you can give him the right guidance instead of just guessing what happened to him.
Parents should learn to listen to rebellious children. If your child tells you what's in your heart, you must listen patiently, and don't rush to refute it. This may not hear their true inner voice, and it may also deepen the contradiction between you. Listen patiently, he may say something complaining about you. You should explain and tell him the reason of your behavior, and you should also tell him that you love him. In fact, most adolescent children rebel because they don't feel love.