Moreover, most children who learn bullying are particularly good at learning, but in the workplace and business, they are often caught in a job dilemma with excellent resumes but poor performance because of poor communication and disagreement.
Happy education has skills. Education is a job to help life grow vigorously. It needs to constantly discover problems, consciously think and form an attitude on the premise of respecting the law of life development. Because the growth of individual life faced by education is irreversible, happy education is what we have been pursuing. This is not impossible. It requires educators to seize the opportunity of education with love and wisdom. 1. Cultivate children's experience of happiness. Parents should ask their children how they feel, whether they are happy or not, and why. For example, when you take your child out to play, ask him, "Do you like going out to play? Are you happy? " You can also ask, "Are you happy with your parents?" Parents should always tell their children about their experiences, such as "I'm glad you can wash your socks yourself." 2. Respect children's wishes. Some things may be boring for parents, but children like them very much. What parents think their children will like, but the children are unhappy when they get it. Some parents buy expensive toys for their children, but children prefer to play with water, mud, hide-and-seek and play house. So parents should not always impose their likes and dislikes on their children, but let them do what they like. 3. Be lenient and strict with children. Parents should not turn a blind eye to their children's shortcomings and mistakes in order to win their children's happiness. You can't be harsh on your child, you can't compare it horizontally with your peers, and you can't even compare your child's shortcomings with the strengths of your peers. You should pay attention to vertical comparison. Once you find the child's flash and small progress, you should praise it in time. 4. Make emotional investment in children and maintain their mental health. Parents should make certain "spiritual investment". For example, look at the children affectionately, have warm physical contact with them, and care for them wholeheartedly. 5. Happiness needs to be limited. Many middle-aged parents have this experience. In the past, children didn't have much material enjoyment, but they lived happily. Children nowadays want everything, but they are always unhappy. The reason is that what you have been waiting for for a long time will always make people happy, and what you can easily get is not precious. When we try our best to meet every requirement of our children, we actually deprive them of the right to enjoy happiness. Children's happiness and satisfaction after completing a thing through their own efforts can't be given by their parents. 6. The relationship between parents should be harmonious. Only by establishing a harmonious and tacit relationship can parents exert a subtle influence on their children. "The child's face is a barometer of the relationship between parents", which is the truth. 7. Set an example for children, set an example for children to imitate, and always use the optimistic children of emotional contagion. It is every parent's responsibility to give their children a happy childhood. Of course, children's happiness cannot be at the expense of others. If children are willing to harm the interests of others, they should resolutely stop and not compromise. At the same time, he wants to tell his children that his parents are very angry about it and no one will like him. In the face of children's psychological problems, if timely and correct counseling can be carried out, it will save the day and be calm. A common weakness of today's children is their inner weakness and lack of corresponding psychological endurance. Because life is so smooth, a little blow may make them depressed and desperate. Therefore, in the way of education, parents should not blindly emphasize what they should do verbally, but should let their children experience more "frustrated" content. Let children undertake housework and work-study programs to earn their own pocket money and tuition fees.