(1) High requirements: having clear and reasonable requirements for children will set certain behavioral goals for children, appropriately limit unreasonable willful behaviors of children, educate and persuade children in strict accordance with the rules, and urge children to strive to achieve their goals; The child's good behavior shows sincere support and affirmation.

(2) High warmth: take the initiative to care for children, be patient in listening to children's stories, be sensible and sensitive, and encourage children to grow up. This kind of parents practice a "rational, strict, democratic, caring and patient" education method.

This kind of warm parenting style, which is strong in control and emotionally acceptable, generally has a positive impact on children's personality development.

Children's personality tendency:

This kind of parenting style is easy to cultivate children into a kind, gentle, emotionally stable and thoughtful character or an independent, straightforward and active cooperative character, with strong cognitive and social skills.

2. Authoritarian type

"Autocratic" parents generally belong to "high requirements, but low warmth".

Parental performance:

(1) demanding: parents usually think that "lax discipline will spoil their children". Children may be required to be consistent and obedient in their behavior. Such parents are more binding, imposing many rules on their children and requiring them to strictly abide by them.

(2) Low warmth: You can't stand children's opposition to the rules, otherwise you may punish or threaten to punish children. In contrast, parents' acceptance and response to their children is far from enough, and they rarely explain to their children the necessity of obeying these rules. And in the process of education, it is often accompanied by punishment and compulsory strategies.

Children's personality tendency:

This kind of upbringing may lead to fear, self-distrust, lack of initiative, timidity, cowardice, fear, depression, inferiority, self-distrust, easy to be emotional and not good at making friends.

3. Tolerance types

"Tolerant" parents generally belong to "low requirements, high warmth"

Parental performance:

(1) Low requirements: Parents rarely make rules for their children, and even often let their children make their own decisions. Tolerant parents will hand over most decision-making responsibilities to their children.

(2) High warmth: tolerant parents care about their children like authoritative parents, attach importance to communication, and think that children will learn more from their own behavior results than obey their own rules.

Children's personality tendency:

In this way, it is easier for children to express their feelings and ideas freely. Of course, it is also possible that parents are too tolerant, impulsive and aggressive, lack of sense of responsibility, disobedience, lack of self-control and low self-confidence. These may cause problems for children at school or after entering the society.