Parents attach great importance to their children's education. Parents want to educate their children well, so they can customize the education policy according to their children's personality, so that their children's character strengths can be brought into full play. The following is about how to decide the way to raise children with different personalities!
About the different personality determines the way of raising children 1 is a lively type who likes to try new things.
1, personality characteristics:
Cheerful optimists always have new ideas, especially active thinking, and do what they say.
I am easily disturbed by emotions, outspoken, and say more than I do. When I encounter difficulties, I tend to lose confidence, be disorganized, do things incompletely, be distracted and make excuses. Easy to make friends, born social worker. Forgetfulness is changeable, and there is no perseverance in doing things.
2, parenting style:
Parents should pay special attention to the cultivation of perseverance and perseverance, and strive to complete everything, otherwise it will lead to difficulties in future study and career, which also requires parents' tireless supervision and encouragement.
Typical power that never gives up.
1, personality characteristics:
Strength baby has a clear goal, a comprehensive view of the problem, strong organization, quick action, solving problems all night, bravely sticking to the end and growing up in opposition.
However, due to too much emphasis on the results, it is often easy to ignore the details and deal with the problems in detail. I like to control others and won't say I'm sorry.
2, parenting style:
Parents pay attention to the cultivation of emotional control when raising such babies. Strong babies get angry easily and are rebellious. Parents should give priority to cold treatment and soft treatment, but this baby is soft and hard.
There are only better perfect examples.
1, personality characteristics:
Perfectionist's baby, with high standards, strong planning, attention to detail, methodical and neat, can find problems and make solutions, stick to their own opinions and finish from beginning to end.
But it is very likely that he is an indecisive person, easy to deny himself, and always seems to have a sense of insecurity, especially needing the approval of others and finding fault with others.
2, parenting style:
Giving full encouragement and affirmation is the focus of education. Discipline should not be too strict, everything should be strict, so as not to cause the baby to have a compulsive tendency in the future.
A model of peace with gentleness and patience.
1, personality characteristics:
This type of baby can be step by step, patient and persistent. However, it always seems to be slow, hard to be encouraged, lazy, sloppy, and muddle along. In interpersonal communication, they are not enthusiastic and shrink back.
2, parenting style:
When raising such babies, parents should give them more opportunities to communicate, such as small things like shopping payment and asking for directions, and teach them to learn to show their advantages. In today's society, there is nothing to say after eating a stuffy jar.
Compound 1: active extroversion = liveliness+strength.
With the dual characteristics of liveliness and strength, parents should pay attention to which factors are dominant and treat them differently. This kind of baby is standard extroverted, easy to please and easy to get angry.
Parents should pay attention to cultivating self-reflection ability and let their babies learn to be considerate of others. According to the characteristics of preferring to move rather than to be quiet, the baby can learn calligraphy and painting, musical instruments, and be happy and nourishing.
Compound 2: Introversion = Perfection+Peace
Parents should pay attention to which factors are dominant and treat them differently. This kind of baby is a standard introverted type, and its feelings are not exposed.
Parents should pay attention to cultivating interpersonal skills and let their babies learn to communicate with others. According to the baby's quiet characteristics, you can learn to dance, exercise and add passion and fun.
Compound 3: approachable = lively+peaceful.
This kind of complementary food baby is the most approachable and particularly easy to get along with. Parents should guide the concept of good and evil and increase their baby's awareness of self-protection.
Compound 4: Excellent * * * = Strength+Perfection
This type of baby is another kind of complementary personality, especially with leadership ability, both strength-based persistence and perfect exquisiteness.
Parents should let their babies learn to be considerate and patient, pay attention to increasing affinity and prevent arrogance.
Compound type 5: contradictory personality = lively+perfect or strong+peaceful.
Liveliness and perfection are a pair of contradictions, so are strength and peace. No matter what kind of contradictory baby, parents should be particularly careful to guide.
Pay attention to observe whether the baby's personality tendency is extroverted or introverted. Introverted and contradictory characters should prevent depression, and extroverted and contradictory babies should prevent eccentricity.
Different personalities determine the way of upbringing. The character of two people is a long-term subtle process. Although there are also genetic and social and cultural influences, the main influence lies in the acquired family environment.
Personality is generally formed in a person's infancy and childhood. Many parents think that children are too young to understand anything at this time, which is the most important moment in their lives.
The family composed of parents is the cradle of everyone's growth, and it is also the external environment that leaves a deep impression on a person's life. The warm atmosphere of the family, the easy communication between relatives and the way of upbringing are what children value most.
Different parenting styles will lead to different children's personalities. Family rearing patterns are generally divided into: democratic, authoritarian, doting and indulgent.
Democratic parents will encourage their children to be independent, ask their children's opinions gently and help them make decisions independently under careful guidance. Therefore, children who grow up in democratic families will have the ability to think independently and wait for people's wishes peacefully.
Autocratic parents treat their children just as ancient emperors treated their officials. Forcing children to do things according to their own ideas, once they make mistakes, they will be solved with severe punishment, either beating or scolding.
This kind of parenting usually makes children lose their sense of security and belonging, and they are always in a state of tension. They don't think their parents are the closest relatives in the world, and even deliberately alienate them.
Children who grow up in authoritarian families are often lonely, unsociable and unable to find self-confidence. If it is serious, it may be stubborn, hostile to the outside world and a little neurotic.
Spoiled parents are somewhat irresponsible. They put their children aside, ignored them and let themselves go.
Because such children have never felt the care of their parents since childhood, they are emotionally indifferent, unable to establish close relationships with others, and will form a loose character because no one cares about their behavior, making it difficult to achieve anything.
Spoiling parents is just the opposite of doting on parents. They tend to care too much about their children, pay too much attention to them and obey all their requirements. Parents never refuse their demands. Therefore, when such children grow up, they are often selfish and willful, overly dependent on others, lazy and unreasonable.
Only a democratic family here is the right way to raise children. A democratic family atmosphere will give children a loving environment and bring them a sense of security and belonging.
If a person can't feel love and being loved in his parents' family, it will be difficult for him to love and respect others as an adult.
In addition, a democratic family environment will respect children's ideas and practices, so that children can gradually build up their personality self-esteem and self-confidence. Such a child is emotionally stable, emotionally rich, can live in harmony with others, and can easily achieve his goal.
So Xiong Haizi is the result of educational failure. Don't blame the child for being disobedient, it's your education method.