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The younger brother next door has come back from work. He has walked back and forth four or five times in the past few months. In his own words, he recited 10 thousand to 20 thousand.

I heard that when he was a child at school, he skipped classes and hid in a ditch on the side of the road to play small cards. I am in grade three, and I don't know much about Chinese Pinyin.

I barely went to school for another two years, and I haven't been to school since I graduated from primary school. Because I was young, it was also a problem to be idle at home, so I went to my cousin's door and window shop as an apprentice.

Cousin and sister-in-law are very kind to him, and he lives there, too. Occasionally, my cousin made a mistake and criticized him, so he went home in anger. Afterwards, my wife scolded my cousin: he is young, take your time. We must be patient with him. Cousin said: I have said many times that I know how to play. I have no memory at all. That is to say, my wife and cousin bought food and went to his house to see him. Everyone coaxed him into taking him back.

In this way, after a few years, he basically learned, and his salary has increased from a few hundred dollars a month to more than two thousand dollars.

Because all the people who work together are young people, he is also willing to follow. Work when you are alive, listen to music and surf the internet when you are not. His salary is basically a little. If he pays too much, he is afraid that his hand will be wasted.

When the shop is not busy, he seldom goes home, and even if he does, he can't stay. Go to the internet cafe with several children of the same age and secretly play cards. Knowing that he played cards, his wife and family always advised him to "turn over a new leaf", but he never gave up this hobby because of his poor self-control.

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Later, my cousin changed careers, and he began to work with others on the construction site and began to run around. In a blink of an eye, it is time to get married. Instead of saving money, he owed tens of thousands of gambling debts. His parents are worried, but he is indifferent. Let's live every day!

Every time he came back, his wife earnestly advised him that he was not young and should make a plan for his life. He seems to be free and easy, but he is helpless. He can only talk about the situation at home over the years. His wife enlightened him: In any case, we should make changes from ourselves. You are not married now, and you don't realize that it is not easy to support your family. I will get married and have a wife and children to support. You should support your parents when they are old. These are the responsibilities you must bear in the future, so you should have the consciousness of saving money now, and you can't spend as much as you earn. It's not easy for your parents. Think more about them and be nice to them.

The younger brother next door is kind, generous and loyal to everyone. It is that he went to school too little, and his family did not pay enough attention to his education and guidance when he was a child (or his parents' cognitive ability was limited). I am a little old and want to be self-disciplined. I had to shout or resist. Especially in the rebellious period of youth, his family's attitude was a little bad, so he simply didn't go home.

Over time, children have less and less attachment to their families and less and less closeness to their parents. In fact, many times we others think that children are quite distressing. Helpless, children are used to running outside, and some bad habits can't be changed for a while. But if you don't change, even if you get married in the future, it may be difficult to be happy.

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Many times I think: when we bring our children into this world, their inner world is as pure as a blank sheet of paper. We could have accompanied them and painted a happy and colorful picture of life. But since when have children become less obedient and unruly? What should we do as parents when children show these signs?

Attending the school's parent-teacher conference, I heard parents complain: children don't communicate with us when they come home, and they don't know what they are thinking all day. I don't even know where to start. I really feel: poor children, poor parents.

My family has two precious daughters, who think they are sensible and smart. They always have endless topics before me. In their hearts, I am both a friend who talks about everything and a strict and serious mother. I am relaxed with them, and they love (respect) me and are "afraid".

I have always attached great importance to the education of my two children, and told them from an early age: to be a man, do things first. Don't make small mistakes, learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. The two children are not only obedient, but also knowledgeable and filial.

I'm not sure whether my education method is successful or not, but at least so far, the two children have made people feel at ease in all aspects.

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Li Ka-shing said: The success of any career can't make up for the failure of children's education.

In the book "Poor Dad, Rich Dad", there is also such a passage: The so-called success means having time to take care of your children. It's not how thick the ticket you earn, how wide the house you buy or how handsome the car you drive. That is, the parents' meeting of the school can have your figure, and you can always see your back when you open the door.

There is also a time limit for parents to accompany their children. The so-called "validity period" is also the golden period for educating children. Let each of our parents exercise their "rights" and give their children rational guidance and education.

Some people say that "children's education is the foundation of parents now."

It is also said that "the king of educating children is to cultivate themselves persistently."

Anyway, let's shoulder the responsibility of being parents and give our children a good future!